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It's tempting, isn't it? I don't have a huge following either but it might be worth asking if others are interested.

14.03.2026 13:16 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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My rapist told me I should forgive him because I'm Christian Grace, 51, suffered spiritual abuse for more than a year before her ex-partner was jailed for rape.

"She added it was "a deeply twisted version of true forgiveness, which should never put someone at increased risk of harm" and "by far the most effective and devastating way to control them" but was "still not talked about enough"."

www.bbc.co.uk/news/article...

13.03.2026 15:12 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I'm a lesbian who opposes men calling themselves lesbians. Sorry this bothers you.

13.03.2026 09:52 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0

No. Men calling themselves lesbians are homophobic, on the other hand. Hope this helps.

13.03.2026 09:44 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I'm not, no. I'm not aware of such a book club online - I remember one on Twitter which was based on STEM books, and there's FiLiA's lesbian book club, but that of course isn't strictly feminist as far as I know.

13.03.2026 09:43 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Hi Susan Sarandon, how's the whole revolution thing working out for you right now?

12.03.2026 12:56 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

The incoherence is something else. "Of *course* TWAW, no decent woman would deny this, they have their own challenges that I'll talk about". Then they proceed to include transmen and NB people, completely undermining their claims. Women almost an afterthought while prioritising everyone else.

12.03.2026 13:09 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Yes, it's everywhere. I can't imagine how exhausting it is, especially if you play an individual sport.

12.03.2026 13:04 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Winter Paralympics 2026: The 'mixed' team event with one woman Despite Para-ice hockey being a 'mixed' event at the Winter Paralympics, just one female player will compete at Milan-Cortina.

Benefits of being on the men's team: "They don't have to worry about having the money or doing a fundraiser to get to a competition[...]

"[...] they are at the Paralympic Games and they have a World Championship... they get paid to play their sport each month."

www.bbc.co.uk/sport/ice-ho...

12.03.2026 13:03 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

That's true. I think I filter such books out as much as possible, but it's frustrating to see female authors apologise for focusing on sex rather than gender when analysing issues that affect us.

12.03.2026 10:01 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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Black female footballers are praised for their strength, white players for their intelligence: what our study shows We analysed 2,905 comments of praise given to footballers during 80 hours of BBC and ITV coverage.

Interesting to see a data analysis of the problem. Judging by the comments under this article, we still have a long way to go.

theconversation.com/black-female...

12.03.2026 09:59 πŸ‘ 6 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

What if these straight men, one of whom was a prolific abuser of girls and one of whom is accused of sexually harassing multiple women, were gay?

Thats satire, baby!

11.03.2026 21:19 πŸ‘ 155 πŸ” 34 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

It's part of the reason I prefer non-fiction. Topics aren't going to be ruined by all this human messiness πŸ˜…

Having said that I'm about to start A Family Matter and I'm looking forward to it. I know it's a difficult subject but one important to our history.

11.03.2026 21:26 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

It's all so strange. I'm reluctant to read books with lesbian characters that were written recently because of what I might come across. I also feel that the inclusion of "queer" characters is often forced and performative, rather than thoughtful and meaningful. It does nothing for the story.

11.03.2026 21:20 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Stunning work.

11.03.2026 15:17 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
Embroidery on floral fabric of a small bird with a long tail feather

Embroidery on floral fabric of a small bird with a long tail feather

Contemporary embroidery artist Emily Tull #Womensart

11.03.2026 06:29 πŸ‘ 546 πŸ” 71 πŸ’¬ 6 πŸ“Œ 3

And Eve, the main character, behaved in a cruel, selfish way for far too long. As you put it so well, it's not someone I'd want to spend too much time with. I read mostly non-fiction, and the fiction I read is usually to escape for a bit. The TW bit just too much in the respect. No way back.

11.03.2026 12:23 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I felt the plot was not a bad one but the execution just didn't work for me. A lot of the characters were two-dimensional, caricatures and boring frankly, but that may be because I'm old now and don't tolerate things I used to 😬 I felt I had to suspend disbelief too often and the story was confused.

11.03.2026 12:20 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Good points. I really don't know about the author's intentions with her characters but many readers find them unlikeable. It was a promising beginning and many lesbians would've recognised the feelings of dealing with homophobia, including internalised homophobia, and betrayal, fear, etc.

11.03.2026 12:18 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0

Sorry, it was a bit of a random question. I don't know anyone who's read it but it's just won a prize so that might change.

11.03.2026 12:09 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Have you read A Family Matter by Claire Lynch? Next book after I've finished the Will Trent book I'm currently reading.

10.03.2026 09:30 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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School almost makes sense…
and then it absolutely doesn’t.
#CalvinandHobbes #HistoryClass

09.03.2026 18:02 πŸ‘ 82 πŸ” 12 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Nobody speaks for all women. The laws allows for discrimination when the rights of different groups clash.

I have never denied trans people face discrimination and violence, and I agree that they deserve protections.

At some point it would be nice if you all stopped misrepresenting us.

08.03.2026 20:00 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

It's just meh at best, all so superficial with truly unlikeable characters. I don't think I'm a demanding reader, I'll read many things. It's very rare for me to have such a reaction.

08.03.2026 16:48 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

I saw it recommended by several people and so thought it could be interesting. I really should learn my lesson because it's hardly the first time this has happened. The reviews I've seen so far are pretty positive and this confuses me. Maybe I'm getting old. The sex was literally one sentence.

08.03.2026 16:45 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Thank you.

08.03.2026 12:24 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Is this from today?

08.03.2026 11:56 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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Women Without Men: the feminist book that Iran’s regime has failed to silence since the 80s The story of five women who flee the violent patriarchal structures in search of a feminist utopia.

Next book sorted.

theconversation.com/women-withou...

08.03.2026 11:54 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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Morning all.

Photograph by Frank Martin. Charles Tumbridge riding through Kensal Rise, West London with his dog Susie in her sidecar kennel, 1962.

08.03.2026 09:12 πŸ‘ 253 πŸ” 47 πŸ’¬ 14 πŸ“Œ 6

I've been wondering if it's meta in any way, which would make it more interesting and damning. I might do some digging.

08.03.2026 09:43 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0