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The personal account of Evan Urquhart of Assigned Media (assignedmedia.org), your trans news source. I'd still rather be playing pinball.

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Nasdaq is changing its rules to "entice" the SpaceX IPO to its exchange, which will fast-track the stock's inclusion in index funds... this effectively dumps Elon Musk's unprofitable garbage on vulnerable passive investors, and ensures new retirement accounts have to buy in.

10.03.2026 16:06 πŸ‘ 318 πŸ” 116 πŸ’¬ 13 πŸ“Œ 12

For every educator trying to find the words to explain why policies requiring us to out trans students are unacceptable:

10.03.2026 23:07 πŸ‘ 30 πŸ” 8 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

The reviews searched over 12,000 references. They screened 547 full-text papers for inclusion. They included 17. That's a 96.9% exclusion rate at full text. 530 studies were relevant enough to survive initial screening, then rejected by the review criteria. 6/10 reviews found 0 included studies.

10.03.2026 10:57 πŸ‘ 826 πŸ” 239 πŸ’¬ 4 πŸ“Œ 9

Look man, my depression is already bad enough.

10.03.2026 20:01 πŸ‘ 857 πŸ” 98 πŸ’¬ 47 πŸ“Œ 1

I was at CPJ for nearly a decade, helping to free journalists imprisoned by repressive governments around the world.

Never in the US.

Trump is destroying American principles. Free Estefany RodrΓ­guez now.

10.03.2026 20:38 πŸ‘ 47 πŸ” 17 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

That's the worst!! How could you not resent it??

10.03.2026 20:41 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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Amidst everything going on β€” we need insights on the dynamics of how we got here.

The right-wing, the media, and right-wing media politics β€” are key concerns today.

@ajbauer.bsky.social wrote the book on it. Buy β€œMaking The Liberal Media” now. It’s wise & readable, historical & (painfully) urgent…

10.03.2026 20:33 πŸ‘ 19 πŸ” 4 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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10.03.2026 18:29 πŸ‘ 14 πŸ” 5 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

You're looking at the future of the GOP. Sooner or later these young Nazi Republicans will aspire to high office, climbing their way up through the ranks and replacing the old Republican leadership. At some point Americans are going to have to stop treating the GOP as a normal political party.

10.03.2026 19:58 πŸ‘ 57 πŸ” 24 πŸ’¬ 3 πŸ“Œ 0

Thread, I was hesitant with this opening but Evan explains well, while my 1st answer to why a kid wouldn't tell their parents is "bc they think it isn't safe & don't you dare out them in case they're right", it can also be wanting to 'try before you buy'. Being a teen means experimenting w/identity

10.03.2026 19:53 πŸ‘ 24 πŸ” 6 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 1
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The emancipation of Asuka Langley Soryu: aftermath.site/neon-genesis-e...

10.03.2026 18:50 πŸ‘ 379 πŸ” 82 πŸ’¬ 7 πŸ“Œ 31

You're not wrong, though starting in the middle of a book you have the whole thing of is still weird. Totally fine - ppl should do what they want - but weird to actively prefer it to, for example, reading a few pages in the middle, liking the vibe, and starting from the beginning.

10.03.2026 19:23 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

The gullible and hateful pseudo feminists who helped propel this cause share significant responsibility for the erosion of our actual rights that has, again, OBVIOUSLY resulted from anti-trans propaganda and policy

10.03.2026 18:04 πŸ‘ 345 πŸ” 34 πŸ’¬ 3 πŸ“Œ 1
4 frame comic. a street journalist is interviewing a tall light brown man with a pink scarf and a tshirt of the band Angine de Poitrine. off-frame, the journalist asks : sir! are you worried about
homophobic parents who
might want to trans their
child rather than have
an effeminate son?
the man replies :
wait wait wait wait wait.
are you implying that some
homophobes might not also
be raging transphobes?
Never heard of that.
trans kids are currently
being hunted down, outlawed,
marginalized from social life,
singled out in their own schools,
and you're asking me about some
hypothetical parent who might
pressure a child into being trans so
they might what? fit in better?
transitioning as a child in-
volves years of determination.
every adult in their life is likely
to cast doubt on who they are. if
they are lucky and have supportive
parents, their families are often
ostracized by their community.
the idea that someone sees the
hardships a family with a trans
child goes through and thinks "they
must have forced it on them"
makes me physically ill.

4 frame comic. a street journalist is interviewing a tall light brown man with a pink scarf and a tshirt of the band Angine de Poitrine. off-frame, the journalist asks : sir! are you worried about homophobic parents who might want to trans their child rather than have an effeminate son? the man replies : wait wait wait wait wait. are you implying that some homophobes might not also be raging transphobes? Never heard of that. trans kids are currently being hunted down, outlawed, marginalized from social life, singled out in their own schools, and you're asking me about some hypothetical parent who might pressure a child into being trans so they might what? fit in better? transitioning as a child in- volves years of determination. every adult in their life is likely to cast doubt on who they are. if they are lucky and have supportive parents, their families are often ostracized by their community. the idea that someone sees the hardships a family with a trans child goes through and thinks "they must have forced it on them" makes me physically ill.

Wait wait wait wait wait

10.03.2026 19:12 πŸ‘ 462 πŸ” 177 πŸ’¬ 3 πŸ“Œ 2
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10.03.2026 17:23 πŸ‘ 82 πŸ” 34 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 2

I have a very supportive family and transitioned as an adult. I still tried out new names with close friends before sharing it with everyone.

So many misconceptions get created by people treating transition as a single irrevocable choice rather than a constant progress

10.03.2026 18:17 πŸ‘ 25 πŸ” 6 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Yes - or the opposite. Imagine there WAS a typo, you tell the teacher honestly "I'm really a boy, and I go by Scott" and you're called Roberta and sorted with the girls all day until the teacher checks with your parents.

10.03.2026 18:31 πŸ‘ 7 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Also, and I know this is beside the point, kids going by names other than what’s on the roster printout is super common! My first name is Robert, but I’ve always gone by middle name of Scott. Do teachers have to call me Robert or Bob or whatever until confirming with a parent that I’m really Scott?

10.03.2026 18:22 πŸ‘ 31 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 9 πŸ“Œ 0

Children exploring gender and identity might not be ready to discuss these things with parents first. A trust-based family dynamic means that's alright.

"I'm always there for you about anything, we can talk when you're ready. I get it." is trust extended without demand, room to try things out.

10.03.2026 18:24 πŸ‘ 38 πŸ” 8 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Outing them to parents also runs the risk of a parent maybe overeager to show their support rushing things.

Just let kids do harmless things the way they feel works best for them, ffs.

10.03.2026 18:14 πŸ‘ 36 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Also true for non-teens! I came out to a few friends to build up to coming out to family. I didn’t even go immediately to my vocally supportive sister. It’s a huge step!

10.03.2026 18:09 πŸ‘ 13 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Parents of trans kids who came out to their peers first and think it's because they did something wrong.

10.03.2026 18:11 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Different families are different. Many kids do come out to their parents before anyone else, especially if they're very young or don't have supportive peer relationships.

But I don't want parents to think they're doing something wrong if their kid came out at school first.

10.03.2026 18:11 πŸ‘ 99 πŸ” 6 πŸ’¬ 3 πŸ“Œ 1

This is more true in families that respond negatively. A kid who doubles down and INSISTS they're binary trans and want to medically transition is not going to want to come back and say "oh, maybe I'm nonbinary, maybe I don't want testosterone."

Even to themselves they won't want to admit that.

10.03.2026 18:08 πŸ‘ 85 πŸ” 2 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0

By stopping kids from engaging in this sort of rehearsing and experimenting with identity BEFORE they tell they're parents, you're expecting them to know for sure before they try out something and see how it feels for them.

And if it doesn't feel right, they'll be reluctant to admit that.

10.03.2026 18:07 πŸ‘ 101 πŸ” 6 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 1

When parents are already predisposed to view things as a phase (dismissively) kids really do want to know for sure before asking

10.03.2026 18:04 πŸ‘ 13 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Asking your friends or even your teachers to call you by a different name and pronoun has lower stakes. Worst case scenario, you're leaving all those people behind forever in a few years. Not so with family.

Teens aren't stupid. They know this.

10.03.2026 18:04 πŸ‘ 113 πŸ” 5 πŸ’¬ 3 πŸ“Œ 0

Coming out to your parents as trans, even very supportive parents, is a major life announcement. You are saying that this is who you are and will be for the rest of your life. (That may or may not be true, but that's how it feels to a teenager.)

10.03.2026 18:03 πŸ‘ 124 πŸ” 7 πŸ’¬ 3 πŸ“Œ 0

People think that teens don't care what their family thinks as much as their peers, but that's not true at all. Teens understand that family is forever and important, which is why it's so emotionally fraught to separate and individuate.

Peer relations are where low stakes experimentation happens.

10.03.2026 18:02 πŸ‘ 134 πŸ” 10 πŸ’¬ 4 πŸ“Œ 0

This is true, but also, I think what people don't understand is how informing on kids who are trying out a nickname and a pronoun raises the stakes in way that could drive the inappropriate transitions and regret, the thing we're supposed to be so scared of.

Let me explain.

10.03.2026 17:59 πŸ‘ 242 πŸ” 34 πŸ’¬ 3 πŸ“Œ 5