Sissy Sassy Squatchy

Lol, cute idea but I'm not a fan of "clutter" so that's a direct violation of the strict aesthetic code of conduct

Well he sounds delightful and your initial feeling of not discussing financial stuff with him in the future is a very sage idea!

Alas I am a Eurovision virgin despite it being a bit of a thing down here too (I mean we are almost Australian though I am loath to admit that publicly)

But also choosing not to involve a CC isn't a bad thing either and makes for a simpler paying process ...

And that's my line of work showing through, unsolicited replies completed 🫣😬🫣

If he gets miles/cash back for spend it's not a bad idea to charge bills and then pay off the CC (as long as you aren't leaving a balance on the CC).

You maximize the CC perks while not having any material difference in your cash flow from your checking account (paying X$ on CC vs. X$ on bills)

Thick n juicy?!? Anyone been

Lol, that little emoji is perfect.

And yeah, trying to live in ignorance while it's obvious that's not working for you is it's own trouble but just feels easier than trying to keep up with it all and trying not to get depressed about it because it is all pretty bleak

Alas. That is true.

I try to live in blissful ignorance but obviously that isn't working

VicBears still has 2024 and 2025 dates on their website for it.

I tried to look for dates for that but other than "June" there were no specifics

Speaking of, anyone know any friendly gay parties in Melbourne or Sydney or Brisbane we could attend and make a long weekend out of?

Not even a bear oriented but friendly to a bouncier, less intense, less hard core circuit crowd would be nice.

I am bored and tired and burned out and exhausted.

Everything just seems like a lot lately.

I want something fun, light, and frivolous. Lemme forget the world and go play with sparkly stuff for a while.

Maybe we need a gay holiday to recharge the sparkle battery

The robot garden is pretty wild and the scale is crazy when you walk around the thing. I really wish I had been able to walk through when it was open and all lit up.

I think he just wants to talk.
About anything and everything.
Hes an equal opportunity chatter but not on here.

that's just awful behaviour. It doesn't matter how hot you look or that you posted thirst, its still not ok to have your images shared and commented on without your consent, let alone behind closed doors where you "wouldn't find out".

Its the worst of that often parodied high school girl behaviour.

I have the quote re-skeets disabled (I think, I hope)

I would almost prefer a quote re-skeet vs. a standard one because at least then the re-skeeter has to add something and it would be clear if that was adding value or interesting (negative, positive or otherwise).

I don't know how to explain that this little community of bsky is for me and a place I personally feel safe and confident to explore. I have no desire for social media notoriety. I just want a little corner with fun, interesting, and cute people where I can be me without fear of letting anyone down.

I know this is an over-reaction but man this has my anxiety pinging off like crazy and its barely 7.30am here.

I have been dragged for being weird about posting thirst and then having a negative reaction to the scale of attention before and its lead to account deactivation and I dont want that

Super. Thanks for the confirmation.

and here I was preparing to make a new pinned post because I though I hadn't made it obvious what my feelings around re-skeets were/are 🙄

functionality question.

If I block someone who re-skeeted something from my page does that break the re-skeet or can you still see it on their page?

a not so gentle reminder -

no re-skeets of my images or content please

ugh, well something happened last night in the algorithm ... time to review and filter through all new followers and likes, including one that I am pretty sure like any shirtless image I have in my entire media tab but nothing *nothing* else.

Please let me know if you see my pics in the wild.

lol, I do the same thing. Its amazing how conditioned we are to suck it in.

You look handsome as regardless off how you hold your belly buddy

lol, Tom Walsh used to train at the park right across the street from our old place

I miss jalopnik 😭

Simon and Garfunkel Greatest Hits Side1 (1080 vinyl rip) YouTube video by Jae Yoon Um

youtu.be/xzKqZO5sPUQ?...

grinning from ear to ear

Back on this bullshit.

Gym accountability

Holiday question for those in australasia (or those who have visited these places)

Bali or Hong Kong?

I'm leaning towards the latter but have also never been to Bali