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@speakingbody.com

Practicing Lacanian psychoanalyst, podcaster, parent, & pro-wrestling fan. I contain multitudes! https://www.speakingbody.com https://www.interludewellness.com

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I’m considering moving Speaking Body .vom from Ghost (Pro) to Substack, because it will save me some money and give me access the the audience. Does anyone who sees this really dislike Substack? If you do, what do you dislike about it?

08.03.2026 16:45 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

The cost is that people are less connected to a shared symbolic order as a shared (i.e., anchoring) reference point. What is interesting to consider is the question: Is the increase in freedom worth the cost of losing the stabilizing effects of a common paternal reference point?

03.03.2026 15:36 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Yes, people can do more things now than they could in an era when the paternal metaphor was stronger and a singular Name-of-the-Father was a stronger semblance. However, to see this as only a gain in freedom seems to me to miss something very important: there is a cost to this.

03.03.2026 15:32 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

This weekend, I was talking with people about the decline of the paternal metaphor and the pluralization of the Names-of-the-Father as a phenomenon. I'd summarize the effects of this as (1) an increase in personal freedoms at the cost of (2) less anchoring to a shared stable symbolic order.

03.03.2026 15:30 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Thinking about what psychoanalysis might make space for…

The fragile decision to act while knowing you are inconsistent.

- To write while knowing you are vain.
- To love while knowing you will disappoint.
- To speak while knowing you will be misread.

28.02.2026 17:35 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

… it’s easy to be mad if we think someone has decided to to be sympathetic when there are non-symptomatic options available.

What Saunders novel has me think is this: What happens if we see the other’s symptom as something that is inevitable?

I.e. the symptom is an inevitability not a choice.

26.02.2026 18:42 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Reading the new George Saunders novel Vigil, has me think about something:

When people encounter symptoms and symptomatic enactments in others, it can be easy to get frustrated because of the assumption that the symptomatic others β€œchoosing” to act in a sympathetic way…

26.02.2026 18:39 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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I'm relaunching my podcast under a new Name: Speaking Body. More at speakingbody.substack.com.

20.02.2026 20:23 πŸ‘ 3 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

These were a great success!

01.02.2026 21:01 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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Sunday morning reading. #Lacan

01.02.2026 17:23 πŸ‘ 2 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

I'm testing out the Croissant app, to see if it would work for posting/cross-posting to both Bluesky & Mastodon. I like that they offer a one-time payment for lifetime access.

01.02.2026 17:11 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Desire is what keeps you from β€œgoing too far.” Jouissance is what happens when you do.

#Lacan #jouissance #desire #psychoanalysis

29.05.2025 11:59 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

Too much pleasure can actually kill desire.

28.05.2025 17:59 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

This is what I’m thinking as I re-read the first two chapters of Lacan’s Seminar VII: The Ethics of Psychoanalysis:

The way Lacan uses the term β€œmoral” is tied to what would be socially acceptable or endorsed. This is opposed to ethics which Lacan links to a singular & idiosyncratic desire.

28.05.2025 17:59 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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From @craigmod.com’s Things Become Other things event at Bookends & Beginnings in Evanston yesterday, which was a very fun event.

28.05.2025 12:40 πŸ‘ 6 πŸ” 1 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 1

No problem! Thanks to you for making it. (And for making the mixtapes, the posts, the photos.)

25.05.2025 13:29 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

To put it another way: recent is the very present experience of satisfaction that comes from the drive.

25.05.2025 13:03 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

So, the drive takes the energy (libido), and rather than that energy getting discharged (like a stroke of lightning) the desire/lack (object a) transforms it into something that is recirculated (a circuit, orbit).

Jouissance is how the drive circulating is experienced by the body, how it feels.

25.05.2025 13:01 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Jouissance is the experience or effect that this mechanism produces, which is felt in the body.

25.05.2025 12:56 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

The drive is a phenomenon of libido discharge when it gets caught I’m within the gravitational pull of loss and lack (object a).

I thought of the drive as a process β€” a circuit and as an orbitβ€” of repetitive movement around that which is desired but can’t ever be got.

25.05.2025 12:55 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Recently, I had a conversation with somebody who is interested in psychoanalysis and Lacan where I was asked if I could explain the destination between the drive and jouissance

Here is my attempt to describe how I think about that destination…

25.05.2025 12:50 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 2 πŸ“Œ 0

A very important passage that illustrates how Lacan’s thinking in truth changed over the course of his teaching.

25.05.2025 12:22 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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It’s also great writing! Here is an example of the style of the prose describing the feeling Tara has when she can’t figure out why she going through the endless November 18th:

23.05.2025 14:50 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0

There are other interesting kinds of non-standard-time-loop things and stuff that you discover as you read.

If you like time travel stories / thought experiments, give this a try!

23.05.2025 14:45 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Here is the gist: the protagonist Tara Selter is stuck repeating November 18th again and again.

But, she starts the next November 18th where she went to sleep on the last one. So it’s a little different from other time-loop stories where the person always starts in the same place.

23.05.2025 14:44 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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On the Calculation of Volume (Book I) A NEW YORKER BEST BOOK OF 2024 A WASHINGTON POST NOTABLE BOOK OF 2024 SHORTLISTED FOR THE INTERNATIONAL BOOKER PRIZE 2025 LONGLISTED FOR THE NATIONAL BOOK AWARD FOR TRANSLATED LITERATURE Tara Selt...

I’m a sucker for a good time travel story and right now, I’m reading β€œOn theCalculation of Volume (Vil. 1), by Solvej Blake.

I’m half way through it, and I think not is one of the most interesting time travel stories I’ve encountered.

www.ndbooks.com/book/on-the-...

23.05.2025 14:40 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0

Are you using the music as inspiration for any projects?

23.05.2025 13:50 πŸ‘ 0 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 1 πŸ“Œ 0
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Claude.ai's Mistake in Linking Desire with the Imaginary As I said in my last post, I'm experimenting with talking to Claude.ai and ChatGPT about psychoanalysis. Recently, I've been discussing jouissance, desire, and love with these LLMs. I saw that Claud...

Talking to AI about Lacan: a cautionary tale.

www.surplusjouissance.com/claude-ais-m...

23.05.2025 13:44 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0
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James A. Reeves James is a writer and designer in the Middle West who makes midnight mixtapes and writes about highways and the search for god.

Looking at the design of @jamesreeves.co’s website makes me feel impressed and jealous.

www.jamesreeves.co

23.05.2025 12:09 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 1

So it looks like Sam Altman & Jony Ive are going to team up to make something, but no one knows what.

My guess is it will be like TARS and CASE from the Christopher Nolan film Interstellar… but… with rounded edges?

23.05.2025 01:47 πŸ‘ 1 πŸ” 0 πŸ’¬ 0 πŸ“Œ 0