For trans, non-binary, & gender expansive folks who need a soft place to land for a few hours this month and every month:
I host Breathwork for Trans Liberation. Beginner friendly, recording provided, sliding scale (unlimited scholarships by request).
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There’s no “one way” to come into your identity! You don’t have to fit every stereotype of your gender!
Thrilled to announce! Brand new T-Shirt Design!
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Ask The Gender Doula is coming Friday am!
🤔 I’m interested in top surgery…what do I do?
😞 I don’t see my identity reflected around me. How do I process this grief?
🕊️ How can I connect to spirituality as a trans person?
🏳️⚧️ My facial hair gives me dysphoria, but I don’t wanna stop T. What do I do?
Surgeons should be required to label BMI requirements as unverified personal gnosis (UPG)
This whole post hit so deep for me. I appreciate Amaya's coeurage and willingness to put this into the world.
two fun tips for T - eat more protein, drink electrolytes!
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okay this is so true. Or someone you're intrigued by or to whom you have an intriguing connection 👀
Transphobia in any form is absolute loser behavior.
It's about to be the first of two New Moons in Virgo. Two #Virgo New Moons during a #Tarot Hermit year is significant. Tune out the noise, listen to your body. Virgo is an Earth sign. Mercurial yes, but still an Earth sign. Reality is tangible but not fixed. Whatcha gonna do with a flexible reality?
hey guys check this out
A PRACTICAL GUIDE TO FEMINIZING HRT (15.9k words)
pghrt.diy
What I love most about long-form tarot readings is the opportunity to feel into the story that the cards are telling...pulling on various threads but making sure to also weave the tapestry such that the querent received the medicine they need.
Damn I didn't realize how much I miss reading tarot.
Breathwork for Trans Liberation - where trans folks can gather to breathe, connect to their bodies and one another, and be held in a container of love and support.
Happening tomorrow at 5:30 pm PT.
bit.ly/TransBreath
"devotion is [...] about knowing the heartbeat of a thing, so that we can still recognize it even as it adapts or adjusts, through different timelines and lifetimes." — @megjoneswall.bsky.social
YES
and we really aren't taught to understand this double-vision reality of devotion, culturally
If you're ready to learn new ways of moving with discomfort, pain, grief, rage, and all the different challenging emotions we're all carrying in 2025, check out Snake Medicine. We start September 8th, and it's going to be incredible. (7/7)
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In Snake Medicine, we work with a variety of skills around challenging feelings and experiences. We work with many different forms of grief and struggle and discomfort. We learn how to feel bad. In learning these skills, we create the conditions to shed our outdated skins, to grow and evolve. (6/7)
Think about the last time you felt like shit. What did you do with the feelings? Did the way you worked with those feelings benefit anyone? Did it benefit you?
There are many ways to work with discomfort, pain, and challenge. You can learn those skills. (5/7)
Instead of being with our hard feelings, many of us instead dissociate first, then mindlessly consume. Most social media apps are very perniciously skilled in facilitating this form of coping, because it benefits capitalism and the parasites who benefit from capitalism. (4/7)
Identifying something as a skill set means that it can be learned, that it can be taught. It's not some mystical innate ability that you either have or you don't have. It's available to you, perhaps with some effort.
So most of us don't have the "feeling bad" skillset. (3/7)
Chronic illness, grief, rage, surgical complications, sexual trauma, and transition have all taught me that being with hard feelings is a skill set as well, and frankly, not one that many of us have been taught. (2/7)
Anywho, many things in my life shifted when I realized that so much of what I assumed I "should just know" how to do were actually skill sets that no one had yet taken the time to teach me.
After I left my abusive relationship, I learned that "being okay" was actually a skill set. (1/7)
2 weeks into marketing Snake Medicine and I JUST remembered it needs to go on my actual website 🥲
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@amayarourke.bsky.social is putting out the most incredible info/work right now and I bet you wanna read it!
Now I know it happened in April so I would be ready to talk about it in September.
If you are in a threshold time (and who isn't in 2025!!) and you need support with navigating The Underworld, join me for Snake Medicine. We're going to go deep, and we're going together.
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"This is ✨so✨ Snake Medicine. Why is it happening in April?"
My annual class about grief, death, rage, rebirth, change, underworld journeys, and threshold times is coming in just four short weeks. And this year, it's informed by that very specific, very intense near-death time I had last spring.
So earlier this year I danced with death more intimately than I have in awhile. It was unexpected, in that my surgery was "totally routine" and "the easiest abdominal surgery" and etc.
But while I laid in a hospital bed with ice cold blood dripping into my arm, I remember thinking...
