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mum deadnaming me twice and calling me her girl and talking so stupid shit when I ask her to stop that
Time for HRT out of spite

a richly furnished, dark, victorian-inspired bedroom. Black and turquoise are the dominant colors. the red light of a setting sun filters in through a window, falling on two characters fucking on a lavish bed. the top character has a long tail and dark tattoos. the bottom character has horns, black wings, a tail, and many light tattoos. the various furniture features bird, spider, and angelic themed imagery, such as a painting on the back wall of a spider eating a bird.

finished comm for @caliclommatus.bsky.social of his and his partner's characters! 🕷️🐦‍⬛

u guys need to remember that every time u draw a hot guy u could make him hotter by making him trans

Nasty my lover!!

illustration of small birds, including pigeons, ducks, crows, a magpie, a cockatiel, a parakeet, and a kiwi, wearing various accessories

choose your fav tiny bird

You wanting to do nice things for everyone and other people throwing a wet towel onto it can really hurt and feel so futile. :( hugs!!

of life. I am neither a coward nor unsure of my masc gender identity, even if my body dysmorphia sometimes has me hung up on more shallow worries. Shallow worries are part of considerations too. Every worry is legit. And worrying about your health care further down the line is not unreasonable.

This is merely a drabble, I have no settled opinion on this. But I suppose I'd like to say when someone is reluctant or uncertain about their transition, that worry is not uncertainty whether one is 'trans (enough)' (bluargh), but a very individual set of thoughts about how it may affect other areas

But its stuff I think about. I agree this idea of 'female-only spaces' you'd lose access to is stupid and not something to mourn if you're wishing to transition. But there is one 'heavily gendered space' that I've experienced strongly and that does kinda affect my life a lot: hospital rooms.

women. Then, there is also the fact that men and women are treated differently by staff in care context. It's a sad fact. Pain is taken seriously at different degrees, as studies have shown. That I think that's fucked up doesn't change it.
Is this a reason for me to not give T another shot? No.

unfortunate as to pass away in a hospital, in what environment do I feel comfortable? Will people be uncomfortable with me? Am I safe?
I don't even have an answer for that. I would dare say Cis guys tend to care less about hygiene and using shared toilets cleanly but I've also encountered such with

and if you're *healing* from something. If you're there because the focus is figuring out what's wrong with you while keeping you from dying, it's a whole different story. Vibe-wise, hygiene-wise.)
Anyways, that premise has you worry - who will I be roomed with at what stage of my life? If I am so

Yesterday me & my s/o talked about how having chronic illness/disability just leaves you with different worries reg. transition. you risk-assess different things..
I have once been in hospital for 2 months which was incredibly straining and traumatic (believe me.. hospital is OK for 2 or 3 nights

A picture of young John Lydon aka Johnny Rotten, sitting in front of a lit candle, with his eyes cast downwards. One of his hands supports his head. He has paperclip attached to his rugged-looking jacket and the picture has the vibe of a quiet, introspective moment.

A black and white photo of young John Lydon standing by a microphone as he performs with the Sex Pistols. He is wearing a black shirt with one sleeve pushed up to his elbow. He has crossed his hands behind his head and glares sideways. A bit of his belly is visible.

I get it.. similar - I bought a Nintendo DSi back in the days and was so excited to use it and used it twice or thrice... somehow the appeal wasn't there and the games didn't get me excited enough... Animal Crossing on Switch was the only thing that sucked me in again over the years

sometimes I sit back like an angry grandpa looking at the console evolution game like - I just switched from Gameboy Colour to Nintendo DS and from Sega Saturn to Sega Dreamcast, frankly, that's enuff!! I'm out!!

I'm so glad it's going uphill and is hopefully even better by today <3

Bedside bibles for true believers

Let's rock with our cock.

he was so greedy again the other day

listen i love ao3 as much as the next guy but ive seen people quit fic writing over the past few years because people comment and engage with authors way less, and then everyone still freaks out when ao3 goes down- if a fic is irreplaceable to u, let the author know!

It's really pretty!!

시티팝들으면서 작업함..

킴도 러닝러였으면 좋겠다 새벽공기맡는것도 좋아할 듯
#DiscoElysium

This is my second auction offer for FandomsTrumpsHate: a single scene from any fandom/media/OC of your choosing, up to 3 chracters, re-imagined in pixel art format, starting bid is $30 for any charity of your choosing.🖤

fth2026offerings.dreamwidth.org/416731.html

#RicDraws #SFW
#PixelArt

still finding this very cool~

sleepy guest at our table

to think what we've experienced in all that time.. it only feels like 5 years and has content for 25 years. I'm so happy to have you, my little creature. thank you for welcoming all my romantic mania that knows no reason, no geography and no boredom. to have you cherish that is the greatest gift

I didn't even properly consider we were having the waffles for celebration but heck ok yes we are, we did <3 anniversary waffles. every day is anniversary. now: anniversary fries.

1978. The Rotten family returning from a trip 'home' to Ireland. Mum Eileen Rotten, nee Horrid, Johnny, & dad John Rotten Senior😀
Alright, it's actually Eileen Mary Lydon, nee Barry, Johnny, & John Lydon Senior...📸Dennis Stone