Got diagnosed at 40. Called my friend. "Yeah, I've known for years." WHY DIDN'T ANYONE TELL ME?
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Got diagnosed at 40. Called my friend. "Yeah, I've known for years." WHY DIDN'T ANYONE TELL ME?
ADHD is your mood depending entirely on whether you found a good parking spot
ADHD is "that was last week" but it was actually 3 months ago
ADHD is your Amazon cart looking like you're prepping for 5 different apocalypses
ADHD is saying "let me just finish this" and then starting 7 new things
ADHD is reading the same paragraph 17 times because your brain keeps going on side quests
ADHD is:
"I'll remember that" forgets immediately
"I'll remember THAT" also forgets
ADHD is opening your phone to check the time and doing everything except checking the time
ADHD is knowing exactly what you need to do and watching yourself not do it like a disappointed ghost
ADHD is living in a world where "later" could mean 5 minutes or 5 months
ADHD is apologizing for things you haven't done yet because you know yourself
• "Sorry in advance for forgetting this"
• immediately forgets
• "See?"
The most expensive word in the ADHD dictionary:
'Interesting'
That word has cost me more deadlines than I can count
Me: "This planner will fix everything."
Planner three days later: "Am I a joke to you?"
ADHD is needing complete silence to focus but also needing noise to think
My meeting prep at 2am: CEO-level strategic thinking
My meeting performance at 2pm: Goldfish with anxiety
The 12-hour time difference is killing me
ADHD life
Sunday night check-in:
Tasks planned: 47
Tasks completed: 2.5
New rabbit holes discovered: 12
Guilt level: Medium
Self-compassion level: Growing
How'd your weekend go?
This feels like my brain just got caught in a riptide and I’m not even mad about it.
ADHD is your browser history looking like you're planning 7 different lives simultaneously
Tab 1: How to start a bakery
Tab 2: Astrophysics for beginners
Tab 3: Why do my plants keep dying
Tab 47: What was I doing again?
half my best material has been wasted on the bathroom mirror since childhood
ADHD is rehearsing conversations that will never happen while ignoring the actual conversation you're having
starts as “what if” and ends with three months of your life gone and a questionable lab smell
ADHD is being simultaneously the smartest and dumbest person in every room
you just described 92% of my “quick dinners.” also somehow i’m now subscribed to three french cooking channels??
not unless i can find a way to automate the aging process and skip the cleanup
ADHD is "I'll just check Instagram for 5 minutes" emerges 3 hours later knowing how to make artisanal cheese
ADHD is your emotions having the volume control of a broken TV remote
ADHD is color-coding your life then forgetting what the colors mean
ADHD is hyperfocusing for 8 hours on a hobby you'll abandon next week
ha! i love that, feels like the paper version of my brain tbh. chaotic but kinda works if you don’t question it too hard
oof yeah that’s a haul, but man, I get it. for me it’s trail walks right before sunset. no earbuds, just letting my brain wander while my feet do their thing. closest I’ve come to peace without a passport