Kate Sloan (she/her)

“I Feel Locked Out the Community”: The Experience of Community for Rural-Living Fisters - Archives of Sexual Behavior Research has highlighted the important role that communities of kink play in the social and sexual lives of kinksters. Existing literature has not examined the experience of community for rural and re...

"A qualitative study was conducted with a multi-national sample of 40 fist-fuckers..." link.springer.com/article/10.1...

also loved chatting with Billy about condom’ed BJs, “friendzoning” fetish, and other manifestations of denial kink bsky.app/profile/kate...

You're In Good Hands | The Dildorks There are always interesting new fetishes to discover! This week we’re discussing some unusual kinks we’ve heard about lately, from latex-sheathed blowjobs to cringe masturbation to being “friendzoned...

NEW Dildorks episode:
#472 You're In Good Hands
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There are always interesting new fetishes to discover! This week we’re discussing some unusual kinks we’ve heard about lately, from latex-sheathed blowjobs to cringe masturbation to being “friendzoned.”

Kate's current top 4 favorite films, as listed on her Letterboxd profile: The Birdcage, High Fidelity, The Shawshank Redemption, and Down With Love

updated my top 4

Bless my wife for re-watching all the High School Musicals with me as part of my Zefron-a-thon

We’re gonna watch #3 tonight which I’ve never seen! Will say, the 2nd one is a HUGE step up in quality from the first, particularly in the choreo/dancing. They had my boy working HARD 😂

Phone calls are, effectively, polling. And polling of highly motivated voters. This isn't just some random issue, but something so important that it drove a constituent to pick up the phone, overcome their anxiety about contacting a political office, and dial.

That's huge.

Stop 👏 having 👏 unrealistic 👏 body 👏 standards 👏 for 👏 camels 👏

Love these two prints together!! Makes me think of a 1950s sock hop or somethin

talked about why hands are hot for a lot of this week's Dildorks (will be out tomorrow, go subscribe in yr podcast app of choice so you don't miss it!)

Girls at work: Tori Barista-ing, babysitting, sculpting olives from marzipan

"...coffee shops are a mainstay, a hub, an amenity like a train station, uniquely prone to bizarre communities and dedicated individuals... A busy morning at work can feel like dating. Transactional, one-on-one interaction that’s both draining and euphoric." bizsherbert.substack.com/p/girls-at-w...

On Basements and the fluency of survival

"...the room has always been the room. & the most honest, most useful thing I’ve learned... is that you can build a real life inside it... a life with texture & pleasure & work you care about & people you love & days where you almost forget you’re underground" www.reasonsforliving.co/p/on-basements

You can lead a glass house to water, but you can’t make it break the ice

This quote has been with me every day since I first heard it and I love her so much for saying it.

How to Talk to Someone Experiencing 'AI Psychosis' Mental health experts say identifying when someone is in need of help is the first step — and approaching them with careful compassion is the hardest, most essential part that follows.

What do you say to someone who believes their chatbot has unlocked the keys to the universe? I talked to mental health experts who are following the 'AI psychosis' issue closely to find out: www.404media.co/ai-psychosis...

People in glass houses shouldn’t throw horses

People in glass horses shouldn’t throw houses

ClaireViolet, a blonde trans girl with rainbow glasses stands beside a green WOMEN tile sign in a subway station, a camera hanging around its neck.

Kate, a cis woman in a black blazer and red top sits on a fallen log in autumn woods, holding a red handbag and wearing matching red sneakers.

rosemary, a hot blonde transsexual with round glasses sips from a white coffee cup in a dim diner, wearing a red striped pink sweater under hanging lights.

Bea, a trans girl in a black leather jacket and red shirt stands on a subway platform holding a vintage camera.

happy international women’s day

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aww thank uuu!

Mirror selfies of Kate in a red T-shirt, black leather jacket, black straight-leg jeans, red & pink Nike AF1s, and black sunglasses that make her look cooler than she is

don’t worry, I’m not actually cool, I’m wearing this to a musical improv class

Senior sex, 15 years on: Does ‘Naked at Our Age’ still hold up today? Joan Price’s Naked at Our Age was once called the bible of senior sex. But 15 years later, do its ideas about intimacy, ageing and relationships still ring true?

“Senior sex, 15 years on: Does ‘Naked at Our Age’ still hold up today?” Bess Strachan examines the core messages of Naked at Our Age in 2011 (“quietly revolutionary”) and wonders whether the ideas inside it still hold true today. Her conclusions at Starts at 60.
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I don’t think I have ever attempted to give head while afflicted with Anemia Tongue but I imagine I would be similarly impaired

anemia is so stupid. like, sorry I can’t make out with you, my tongue hurts because my body refuses to absorb iron for some reason 🤪

(no medical advice please. advice on how to eroticize painful tongue-kissing due to anemia, however, will be permitted)

Mirror selfie of a much younger (early 20s) Kate wearing a grey sweater, black pants, black Doc Martens, and a pearl necklace, with her hair in pigtails

Black strapless dress, red T-strap high heels, and a red bag (all thrifted!!)

An outdoor photo of Kate wearing a turquoise cardigan that perfectly matches her turquoise corduroy shorts, along with a red Tegan and Sara shirt and black Doc Martens

Mirror selfie of Kate in a pink and orange dress with a cropped navy denim jacket and black leather harness boots

dressing like a weirdo is a lifelong project

Canadian Grindr rules. I swear to God, a guy just sent me a dick pic next to a Tim Hortons cup to indicate its relative size and proportion

if you want to know how important it is for you to do this math: the fees patreon took from me in 2025 add up to roughly 3 months of income. that's 3 months of income i would have paid taxes on if i didn't deduct the fees from the 1099. 3 months of income i never actually had!

Thrift stores: a haven of gender exploration Some zany outfits from 2010-2014 featuring lots of thrifted stuff (more at the bottom of this piece – feel free to hit ‘reply’ and let me know which one is...

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Thrift stores: a haven of gender exploration
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Some reflections on why vintage clothing is wonderful, especially for queer and trans folks (complete with cute vintage outfit pics from my teens & twenties, natch!)

I know the reasons for it, of course – I just think it’s a misguided goal and one that they often haven’t thought through

one of the many reasons Disco Elysium has such replayability is the many ways you can interpret the pale

sometimes I see it as a metaphor for climate change, fascism, or existential despair, and there are also passages like this where it reminds me of the internet or A.I.

when people terrifiedly ask whether something they’re into sexually is “normal,” I always wonder why someone would want their sex life to be average

Review: Ppunson Tom 36-lb. realistic male torso sex doll “What the fuck is this huge box?!??!?” That’s what I shouted when the Ppunson 36-lb. realistic male torso sex doll arrived at my apartment. (Phew, his name is a mouthful. Just lik…

NEW on the blog:
Review: Ppunson Tom 36-lb. realistic male torso sex doll
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A mysterious giant box arrived at my apartment last month, and it turned out to be Tom, a super lifelike sex doll with a massive dick. Click through to read all about my experience with him!

In the movie Baywatch, The Rock calls Zac Efron’s character a bunch of derogatory names because of how he looks (Malibu Ken, Bieber, Jonas brother, etc.) & one of the things he calls him is “HIGH SCHOOL MUSICAL”

You’re telling me the HSM movies exist in the Baywatch universe?!? How does that work??