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Pete Quily

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Adult ADHD coach & blogger. 3 websites with 600+ pages of information and links on adult ADHD. Perpetually curious information omnivore https://addcoach4u.com https://adultaddstrengths.com

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"Alysa Liu Is the ADHD Role Model We Desperately Needed" “The biggest lessons we can learn from Liu: Be yourself. Do what you need to do for you. Follow your interests, because that’s where your success lies.”

Double Gold Medallist Alysa Liu Is the ADHD Role Model We Desperately Needed”

“The biggest lessons we can learn from Liu: Be yourself. Do what you need to do for you.

Follow your interests, because that’s where your success lies.”

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09.03.2026 21:11 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Obvs don’t have my diagnosis yet & the world may end before they take my referral but, I assume this is an adhd thing how I come alive at night and actually it’s really fucking annoying as I can’t sleep - the meditation helps but it’s so hard for me to do it properly because my brain never shuts up

09.03.2026 02:10 👍 10 🔁 1 💬 4 📌 0
11 Advantages Of Having ADHD As A Writer - BC ADHD. Information On ADHD In British Columbia 11 Advantages Of Having ADHD As A Writer.

Perhaps. But perhaps you're following in George RR Martin's footsteps? Or both?

See my post 11 Advantages Of Having ADHD As A Writer

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Here's the Harvard/NYU/WHO Adult ADHD screening test

addcoach4u.com/adult-adhd-s...

09.03.2026 20:54 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

I suspect the people who complain about "over-diagnosis" actually just don't think ADHD is a real thing.

So stats / research won't persuade them.

06.03.2026 18:07 👍 19 🔁 1 💬 1 📌 0
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News - No overdiagnosis of ADHD, say experts - University of Nottingham Experts are warning that far from being over diagnosed, people with ADHD are waiting too long for assessment, support and treatment.

What a surprise: Experts are warning that far from being over diagnosed, people with ADHD are waiting too long for assessment, support and treatment.

In a new British Journal of Psychiatry study experts say no robust evidence of ADHD over-diagnosis in UK www.nottingham.ac.uk/news/no...

08.03.2026 11:04 👍 16 🔁 7 💬 1 📌 0

Worst thing a psychiatrist ever said to me was “there are these podcasts I really like, have you ever heard of Jordan Peterson?”

I went unmedicated for a bit after that one

16.10.2023 22:27 👍 150 🔁 5 💬 10 📌 0

I once had someone chipperly tell me “you don’t sound depressed,” which was unpleasant since I had just spent an hour working up the nerve to a call a psychiatrist, and the person who said it was the receptionist

16.10.2023 22:14 👍 193 🔁 5 💬 12 📌 3

46. MARK ZUCKERBURG
Chinless voyeur stopped from beating Elon Musk into hamburger with his face. Getting rich off our private info despite his every profoundly idiotic attempt to “improve” Meta. Won’t let users link to other sites because anyone making money off the web without him gives him crabs.

31.12.2025 02:35 👍 18 🔁 1 💬 1 📌 0

Any coach who gives someone 10 different things to try has probably not been trained as an ADHD coach

09.03.2026 00:32 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Communications And Social Skills For ADHD, Articles, Books, and Videos Many of us with ADHD have problems with communications, social skills and relationships. Here are some articles, books, and videos on them

Communications And Social Skills For ADHD, Articles, Books, and Videos

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And other ADHD coaches often have list of books on their website too

09.03.2026 00:28 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

the place that diagnosed me with ADHD recommended a coach. his website had a long Adult ADHD Reading List. it included Jordan Peterson, Dan Crenshaw, Scott Adams… and a Tom Clancy novel???

16.10.2023 23:51 👍 50 🔁 1 💬 6 📌 1
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ADHD Books - ADDCoach4U ADHD Books. Focusing mainly on Adults with ADHD

If you want to be radicalized to the far right, that might be a good reading list, minus Tom Clancy.

I would check out other ADHD reading lists though

I have some ADHD books here

addcoach4u.com/shop/adhd-bo...

09.03.2026 00:28 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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Mensa ADHD Special Interest Group 623 Members - Adult ADD Strengths Update. Now 636 Members IQ Chart by Wilderdom.com  See their post on What Different IQ Scores Mean  The next time some moron tells you that you can’t have ADD because you did well in school tell them ...

Too many therapists who claimed they’re an ADHD coach without any ADHD coach training, because they think it’s more marketable

While we ADHD people have higher rates of high school & college dropout, I’ve coached multiple PhD’s with ADHD

MENSA ADHD SIG

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09.03.2026 00:17 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

This is what I should have said to the psychotherapist who marketed themselves as an "ADHD coach", who was utterly baffled that I was diagnosed with ADHD as an adult because I have two Bachelor degrees and a Masters.

05.09.2025 15:20 👍 10 🔁 2 💬 1 📌 0

El Niño is one of the biggest climate forces on Earth and it has a profound impact on world-wide weather because of all the heat released into the atmosphere from the ocean. END

06.03.2026 13:34 👍 48 🔁 9 💬 0 📌 0

Also it releases lots of Heat… so it super charges heat waves around the planet and floods too - it all tends to be more immense and intense. And you can bet Earth will experience its hottest days on record coming later 2026 into 2027.4/

06.03.2026 13:33 👍 44 🔁 11 💬 4 📌 1

I want to do keyword searches for posts by people I follow

08.03.2026 01:34 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
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People Are Calling Meta Ray-Bans "Pervert Glasses" On Bluesky, users quickly embraced the term "pervert glasses" to refer to Meta's Ray Ban smart glasses, following a shocking investigation.

Make it stick.

06.03.2026 18:25 👍 10188 🔁 2907 💬 175 📌 353

In Canada IF doctors are trained on ADHD they can diagnose and treat ADHD, problem is few are.

And not enough psychiatrists

Now thanks to all provinces discriminating against ADHD people they have defacto privatized ADHD diagnosis & meds to private nurse practitioner online mills $600 to assess

08.03.2026 01:30 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

Yes, insane it is mainly psychiatrists and psychologists who diagnose ADHD, in the UK, there are not enough of them

Hope people with ADHD in UK have a campaign to contact their MPs and demand they require ALL UK doctors & NP to have mandatory CME courses in ADHD

Hope Cdns do the same

08.03.2026 01:14 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0

One of the main issues in the UK is the lack of NHS diagnostic clinic capacity (you can do it privately, of course). In Canada, diagnosis is publicly funded but relatively few psychiatrists will follow up or treat, so waiting times at that stage are quite long.

07.03.2026 19:18 👍 0 🔁 1 💬 2 📌 0

For over a decade it’s just been a matter of actually listening to what the guy says. He is not subtle, he does not communicate in metaphor, and although he is hyperbolic about his accomplishments, he is extremely literal about his intentions. It’s exhausting STILL watching ppl willfully reject this

08.03.2026 00:07 👍 81 🔁 6 💬 2 📌 1

My political views don’t align with John McCain,but I had respect for the man
That pissed me off to no end when dump said that

07.03.2026 23:05 👍 62 🔁 2 💬 0 📌 0

We’ve been listening to the same rhetoric for years. It was obvious that he had no respect for service members when he mocked and snarked at John McCain, an actual hero. But republicans looked the other way then and never looked back.

07.03.2026 22:24 👍 103 🔁 13 💬 3 📌 0
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Didn't even remove his baseball cap out of respect.

07.03.2026 22:25 👍 85 🔁 20 💬 9 📌 2

He grudgingly showed up at the ceremony for the 6 soldiers killed, pissed off these “suckers and losers” interrupted his golf game and couldn’t even be bothered to take off his ugly, grotesque and tacky hat.

07.03.2026 22:21 👍 119 🔁 14 💬 3 📌 1

He is incapable of empathy, because he’s a psychopath.

07.03.2026 22:19 👍 228 🔁 14 💬 7 📌 0

He wasn't confident his hair glue would handle the breeze. Can't believe he wouldn't take his hat off....total uncaring disrespect....he shouldn't be allowed to salute either....

07.03.2026 23:12 👍 26 🔁 2 💬 2 📌 0

His hair was flat and he’s too vain to expose it.

07.03.2026 22:30 👍 48 🔁 2 💬 3 📌 0

I just saw the dignified transfer of the US service members who were killed in Iran.

Demented Donny did NOT remove his stupid, ugly baseball cap during the transfer ceremony. I don't think you can be anymore DISRESPECTFUL than that.

I don't know what the rules are but it just seemed so gross.

07.03.2026 22:27 👍 139 🔁 13 💬 11 📌 1