Latest posts tagged with #AutisticSWers on Bluesky
🧵: predatory middlemen inserting themselves into digital sex work as "studios" or "agencies" to exploit sex workers
and why this concerns me.
are digital pimps the new 'job interview that turns out to be for cutco knives' for online #SexWork?
#AutisticSWers #SWerAdvice
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If part of your new sex work platform or business seems daunting or like more trouble than it's worth:
There are resources, communities, coaches who can help you learn how things work. NF ad bids aren't that hard
You can pay someone to make you good graphics once you start working.
#AutisticSWers
#AutisticSWers
don't get too caught up in "service topping" and feel like you have to do it to the letter, just based on what they say.
you're the one in charge. make it fun for yourself.
#SWerAdvice
P.S.
another fun part of not being constantly available creating a sense of exclusivity that increases demand
is that you can use it to force clients to pay to book appointments with you if they REALLY don't want to gamble on your schedule or wait.
#SWerAdvice #AutisticSWers
#AutisticSWers
if you're the sex worker being solicited, you have every right to ask the questions you need to know if you want to or can provide they experience they seek.
just ask them. they're the ones hoping to nut. they'll tell you.
I don't think it shows in the feed BC I posted it before I made it, but #AutisticSWers I wanna hear your Autism Moment stories as sex workers.
Here's one of my most amusing and notable, IMO.
Betty Butch's tips definitely are worth reviewing for #AutisticSWers as well 🫶🏻
Check out or use the #AutisticSWers tag I started for community + education/advice for my fellow Autistic sex workers to share.
This is not a space for promo for our work. You deserve promo! But this isn't for that.
I even made a feed for it if you check my feeds.
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Meme by @Craftable_Homo (platform unknown) of a big-eyed black cat standing on its hind legs, throwing sparles in the air, labeled, "You're my favouritest whore."
Since my #AutisticSWers tag hasn't been used other than in my little thread, I'd like to invite fellow #autistic #sexWorkers to chat about life having #autism in the field of #sexWork!
Use the #AutisticSWers tag to contribute. This is a space for discussion/advice rather than promo. 💖
So yet again, more #SWerAdvice #SexWorkerAdvice for all, esp #AutisticSWers :
Please trust your gut. Please please please trust your gut more than the need for money.
This guy is apparently whale money to other operators. But most didn't like his kinks. IDC about the kinks, his vibe was off.
My first time having an "addiction kink" client, he didn't say it was his kink. What he said was that he had a terrible addiction ruining his life and he wanted me to help him.
My autistic ass literally told him to go to SAA. 😂
Fellow #AutisticSWers if you have stories like this, please share.
Sex work can be a minefield as an autistic person if you don't know and enforce your own boundaries and force them to communicate directly.
But you can actually make them communicate directly. Don't be afraid to ask clarifying questions or for repeats of what they said.
#SexWorld #AutisticSWers
