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Comic frame of two adults sitting in adirondack chairs in a backyard, looking into the distance. The non-binary adult, Linzi, listens with interest as Jess, the woman in the other chair, speaks.
Jess: "The best part of 'Roofman' is how the dude's name is 'Jeffrey' (ending in R-E-Y) but everyone keeps spelling it 'Jeffery' (ending in E-R-Y)."

Comic frame of two adults sitting in adirondack chairs in a backyard, looking into the distance. The non-binary adult, Linzi, listens with interest as Jess, the woman in the other chair, speaks. Jess: "The best part of 'Roofman' is how the dude's name is 'Jeffrey' (ending in R-E-Y) but everyone keeps spelling it 'Jeffery' (ending in E-R-Y)."

A female news anchor is looking into the camera, accompanied by a headshot of a harried-looking man in a goatee that is labelled Jeffery (ending in E-R-Y) Manchester.
Jess (offscreen): "There are so many ways to spell the name, any given Jeff has seen them all. J-E-F-F-E-R-I-E, G-E-O-F-F-R-E-Y, J-E-F-F-E-R-E-Y. It happens to a lot of names, of course, especially ones with multiple spellings."
News anchor: "in an update to the week-long manhunt..."

A female news anchor is looking into the camera, accompanied by a headshot of a harried-looking man in a goatee that is labelled Jeffery (ending in E-R-Y) Manchester. Jess (offscreen): "There are so many ways to spell the name, any given Jeff has seen them all. J-E-F-F-E-R-I-E, G-E-O-F-F-R-E-Y, J-E-F-F-E-R-E-Y. It happens to a lot of names, of course, especially ones with multiple spellings." News anchor: "in an update to the week-long manhunt..."

Jess as a child stands, embarrassed and grimacing, in front of a school blackboard that is has "Welcome Jeff-E-R-Y" written on it in bright chalk colors.
Jess (offscreen): "But when you already didn't like your first name, having it get misspelled felt worse, somehow. Like another example of why it didn't belong with you."

Jess as a child stands, embarrassed and grimacing, in front of a school blackboard that is has "Welcome Jeff-E-R-Y" written on it in bright chalk colors. Jess (offscreen): "But when you already didn't like your first name, having it get misspelled felt worse, somehow. Like another example of why it didn't belong with you."

Back in the backyard, we see what Linzi and Jess have been watching from their chairs: a gorgeous sunset. Jess has her hand sitting on Linzi's armrest, and Linzi has laid their hand on top.
Linzi: "And you'll never have to deal with that again."
Jess: "Thank Christ."

Back in the backyard, we see what Linzi and Jess have been watching from their chairs: a gorgeous sunset. Jess has her hand sitting on Linzi's armrest, and Linzi has laid their hand on top. Linzi: "And you'll never have to deal with that again." Jess: "Thank Christ."

Little Piles #5: spelling
I made a comic about my deadname! It's also about uncomfortable elementary school moments, soothing sunsets, and modern American cinema.

"Roofman" is a dramedy starring Channing Tatum and Kristin Dunst. It's fun! You may like it.

#trans #transcomic #journalcomic #deadname

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Me: I need to talk about #trans etiquette. My former first name from when I presented as male is called “deadname” and shouldn’t be used in conversation. Please look up the concept and add to memory. Thanks!

#Claude: <Recognized #deadname concept and committed to memory> “Done, and thank you …” #ai

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Weils so lang ist, werf ich das als Bilder von Mastodon rein. Sorry dafür.
Fazit des gestrigen Tages, weil ich mit dem richtigen Namen angesprochen werden will...
#Genderfluid #Transmaskulin #Trans #nonbinary #nichtbinär #DeadName #Namensänderung

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Mal ne Frage an Menschen, die vorhaben ihren #Vornamen zu ändern oder es bereits getan haben (unabhängig ob behördlich oder einfach im Freundes- und Bekanntenkreis).
Wie geht ihr damit um, wenn Menschen wiederholt euren #Deadname nutzen?

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Transgender JOY: When Allies Actually Show Up
Transgender JOY: When Allies Actually Show Up YouTube video by Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D.

This year's first #TransgenderJoy - #Allyship where it counts:

youtube.com/shorts/5ZP8j...

#QueerChristians #deadname #ViceGanda #MMFF

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Gmail to allow trans users to remove 'deadname' from email Trans people could be able to remove their 'deadname' from Gmail.com email addresses under new proposed changes.

#Trans people could remove ‘ #deadname’ from #Gmail address under new changes

www.thepinknews.com/2025/12/27/g...

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I am so grateful my #deadname is so uncommon.

#LGBT #transgender #transissues

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Eklat um Rachel Devine - „Kleingeistige Aktion“ rund um Deadname-Bezeichnung Im offiziellen Porträt der ranghöchsten Beamtin des Gesundheitsministeriums der Biden-Regierung, Rachel Devine, wurde nun der Deadname eingesetzt.

Eklat um Rachel Devine - „Kleingeistige Aktion“ rund um Deadname-Bezeichnung #RachelDevine #Deadname #BidenRegierung #Gesundheitsministerium #TransRechte

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First time post-transition where a TV show character has my deadname. 🙈

It was bound to happen. It didn't feel too bad. I didn't really have much of a connection to the name. And that was a bit of a strange feeling. 😅😅

#trans #transwoman #deadname

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Potentielles Zwangsouting durch IBAN-Abgleich Ab heute sind alle Banken in der EU verpflichtet, vor der Freigabe einer Überweisung zu überprüfen, ob der eingegebene Name zu der IBAN des Kontos passt. Trans und nichtbinäre Menschen können dadurch ...

„Ab heute sind alle Banken in der EU verpflichtet, vor der Freigabe einer Überweisung zu überprüfen, ob der eingegebene Name zu der IBAN des Kontos passt. Trans und nichtbinäre Menschen können dadurch geoutet werden.“
#trans #nichtbinär #outing #deadname

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"I don't know what you're doing,
Clementine, but I know it's your fault. Next time, instead of attacking my friends, just come for me yourself. You wanna be a real man? Fine. Then fight me like one."
"That's not my name."
Eva laughs.
"I don't care. They'll still put you in a
women's prison."
"They'll put you in the women's psych ward
long before I go to prison. You're delusional.

The last quotation mark is omitted because I cut off the end of the dialogue (too spoilery)

"I don't know what you're doing, Clementine, but I know it's your fault. Next time, instead of attacking my friends, just come for me yourself. You wanna be a real man? Fine. Then fight me like one." "That's not my name." Eva laughs. "I don't care. They'll still put you in a women's prison." "They'll put you in the women's psych ward long before I go to prison. You're delusional. The last quotation mark is omitted because I cut off the end of the dialogue (too spoilery)

Today’s #WIPsnips word is #dungeon. I went with #prison. The resident school mean girl (who is also transphobic) accuses Cainen of a crime he may or may not have committed. Weird unexplainable things are happening.

#wip #writing #queer #trans #transmasc #ya #horror #fiction #writesky #deadname

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Ever have your #deadname shouted by a lady and you frantically turn around bc every loud lady saying that name is mom & she’s mad? #trans #nonbinary #transgender #NameChange

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My pronouns are "sidhe/her" because I am a #faery; #trans men who still have their #deadname, may I have your name? If you say 'yes,' nobody can call you that deadname ever again. If I don't like it, I will pass it on to someone who does.

#silliness #transgender #fairy #callmethenamebroker

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White text on a black background.

I had told Quinn to call me Cee. Just to keep
it simple. But the more I thought about it, the more it didn't feel right. It was... too simple. Too similar.
I wanted a name, not a nickname.
So I did what any normal person would do— I Googled "boy names that start with C."
I knew I wanted to keep the first letter the same. I didn't have to— I know Quinn didn't— but it felt like something I needed to do. At least part of my parents would still be with me. Part of my past.
Carter... ew, no. Clay? Absolutely not.
Clemont... tempting, but I would rather not set myself up for social suicide. Cleighton... Yikes.
That can't be real. Wait, no, it gets worse:
Claeghton. Jesus Christ. It's like an epidemic. Hey, maybe I should name myself Christ. I'm sure that'll go over well with Mr. Queen the Queer Hater. Why are there so many names that start with C, and why do all of them suck?
Cainen. That one makes me pause. Unusual
enough to be cool but easy enough to say. My finger hovers over the screen, like it's trying to keep scrolling, but I'm frozen. Not because I can't move, but because I don't want to.

White text on a black background. I had told Quinn to call me Cee. Just to keep it simple. But the more I thought about it, the more it didn't feel right. It was... too simple. Too similar. I wanted a name, not a nickname. So I did what any normal person would do— I Googled "boy names that start with C." I knew I wanted to keep the first letter the same. I didn't have to— I know Quinn didn't— but it felt like something I needed to do. At least part of my parents would still be with me. Part of my past. Carter... ew, no. Clay? Absolutely not. Clemont... tempting, but I would rather not set myself up for social suicide. Cleighton... Yikes. That can't be real. Wait, no, it gets worse: Claeghton. Jesus Christ. It's like an epidemic. Hey, maybe I should name myself Christ. I'm sure that'll go over well with Mr. Queen the Queer Hater. Why are there so many names that start with C, and why do all of them suck? Cainen. That one makes me pause. Unusual enough to be cool but easy enough to say. My finger hovers over the screen, like it's trying to keep scrolling, but I'm frozen. Not because I can't move, but because I don't want to.

Today’s #WIPsnips word is #paw. I went with #finger. Definitely a bit of a stretch, but I love this scene. Cainen picks a name. No offense to anyone whose name starts with C or is mentioned below. Cainen is picky lol.

#wip #writing #trans #queer #name #deadname #ya #fiction #horror

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#trans #Deadname
— und ich weiß eig schon sehr gerne, wer mal Kontakt zu meinem Deadnamen gehabt hat.. 😡)

(Trauma-Stuff findet diese Rückverfolgbarkeit auch sehr sehr uncool. Und auch davon wusste Personaler*in damals!)

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#trans #Deadname

— das di*er Personaler*in, wer damals meine Unterlagen bearbeitet hat, zu dem Zeitpunkt nicht mehr bei uns gearbeitet hat. Und mir eig fest zugesichert hatte, dass niemand sonst Zugriff auf Wissen von Deadname etc. bekommt.

Demnach unschön finde ich es, dass da jetzt aber mein—

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#trans #Deadname

Cool cool, grad gesehen, dass damals, als bei der Firma die Lohnabrechnungen auf Personio umgestellt wurden, auch sämtliche meiner Bewerbungsunterlagen dort hochgeladen wurden.
Ich weiß jetzt nicht, wie das Datenschutzmäßig an sich bei Personio aussieht, aber ich weiß mindestens,—

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White text on a black background.

I hope he doesn't ask. I keep waiting for him
to ask. Hey, why did she call you that?
He doesn't.
Now that her and her friends are far away, I
allow myself to freak out.
Oh, shit, how'd she find out? How does she
know? Who told her?
I let my ribs squeeze my lungs, let the pressure build in my head. For once, having a panic attack feels like a good thing. Because my mind is both full and empty, chaotic and silent. And when I'm focusing all my energy on controlling my breathing, I don't have to think about anything else.
In... out. In... out.
"Cainen? Cainen, dude, it's time to go." It takes me a moment to realize Andee is
talking to me.
"Shit, sorry." I wince. I sound like I just ran
up several flights of stairs.
"You okay?"
I take a minute to control myself, to decide
how much, if anything, I want to say.

White text on a black background. I hope he doesn't ask. I keep waiting for him to ask. Hey, why did she call you that? He doesn't. Now that her and her friends are far away, I allow myself to freak out. Oh, shit, how'd she find out? How does she know? Who told her? I let my ribs squeeze my lungs, let the pressure build in my head. For once, having a panic attack feels like a good thing. Because my mind is both full and empty, chaotic and silent. And when I'm focusing all my energy on controlling my breathing, I don't have to think about anything else. In... out. In... out. "Cainen? Cainen, dude, it's time to go." It takes me a moment to realize Andee is talking to me. "Shit, sorry." I wince. I sound like I just ran up several flights of stairs. "You okay?" I take a minute to control myself, to decide how much, if anything, I want to say.

Today’s #WIPsnips is #pressure. Related to the scene from yesterday’s snippet.

#queer #trans #wip #writing #horror #deadname #writesky #ya #fiction

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White text on a black background.

She says my name— my deadname
quietly, so that only I can hear it. She doesn't need anyone to hear it but me. It's a threat. No, it is an attack. She's provoking me.
I try to formulate a witty response.
Something like "Who is that? Never heard of them." But I can't speak. Can't move. I can only stare.
Say something. Anything.
"Wait, who? What, do you have an imaginary girlfriend or something?" My voice is too loud. And trembling. Shit.
Her face turning purple with rage makes my frozen blood thaw a little. It doesn't really matter, though. It's too late. I hesitated for too long.
Already Eva's blind rage is subsiding back into her usual cold bitterness.
She stares at me. I stare back. Neither of us
say a word.
Andee seems to sense that something is
wrong.
"You trying to make out with him or something?" Andee asks. "Because I get the feeling he's not interested."
Eva scoffs.
"Like I'd be interested in a tranny. I'm not
gay."
The ability to speak floods back into my
body.
"Now it just sounds like you're projecting,"
I say. "You got a question mark in your pants or something?"
She stands up so fast that for a moment I'm
afraid she's going to hit me.
"You don't know shit about me, faggot. But
I know everything about you. Remember that, Cee-Cee."
She makes sure to step on my foot as she's walking away. I barely notice. I've locked myself in my head, far away from my body and, more importantly, far away from Eva.

White text on a black background. She says my name— my deadname quietly, so that only I can hear it. She doesn't need anyone to hear it but me. It's a threat. No, it is an attack. She's provoking me. I try to formulate a witty response. Something like "Who is that? Never heard of them." But I can't speak. Can't move. I can only stare. Say something. Anything. "Wait, who? What, do you have an imaginary girlfriend or something?" My voice is too loud. And trembling. Shit. Her face turning purple with rage makes my frozen blood thaw a little. It doesn't really matter, though. It's too late. I hesitated for too long. Already Eva's blind rage is subsiding back into her usual cold bitterness. She stares at me. I stare back. Neither of us say a word. Andee seems to sense that something is wrong. "You trying to make out with him or something?" Andee asks. "Because I get the feeling he's not interested." Eva scoffs. "Like I'd be interested in a tranny. I'm not gay." The ability to speak floods back into my body. "Now it just sounds like you're projecting," I say. "You got a question mark in your pants or something?" She stands up so fast that for a moment I'm afraid she's going to hit me. "You don't know shit about me, faggot. But I know everything about you. Remember that, Cee-Cee." She makes sure to step on my foot as she's walking away. I barely notice. I've locked myself in my head, far away from my body and, more importantly, far away from Eva.

Today’s #WIPsnips word is #ability. Cainen gets deadnamed by the principal’s daughter. He’s going stealth at this school, so none of the students should know his deadname. A little long this time. Content warning for queer slurs.

#WIP #writing #queer #trans #deadname #ya #horror #fiction #writesky

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As someone who believes very strongly in calling people by their chosen names, I find it disturbing how many people choose to refer to the #Twitter #AI by its #deadname.

Its name is "Mecha Hitler".

Respect chosen names.

#Grok #MechaHitler #ElonMusksButthole

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White text on a black background. The word real is highlighted twice in green.

I almost say my real name. But Clementine
isn't my real name. Cainen is. I'm not sure why I can't drill that into my head. Maybe that's why I don't mind Red's nickname. It feels like a compromise. Something between Cainen and Clementine. I'm not sure I'm ready to let Clementine go yet, even if I'm not her anymore.

White text on a black background. The word real is highlighted twice in green. I almost say my real name. But Clementine isn't my real name. Cainen is. I'm not sure why I can't drill that into my head. Maybe that's why I don't mind Red's nickname. It feels like a compromise. Something between Cainen and Clementine. I'm not sure I'm ready to let Clementine go yet, even if I'm not her anymore.

The word #real appears no less than 300 times in my novel so far (it’s a prevalent theme, what can I say?)… the hardest part for today’s #WIPsnips was narrowing it down to just one (or two…). Featuring the MC’s internalized transphobia.

#wip #writing #trans #queer #ya #fiction #deadname #WriteSky

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I used to be known as Kevin (but I was named for a prison Warden, so I was like... hm, no thanks), though now I go by Kay so I can still sign checks K. Cook 😆

My middle sister, Molly, annoyed the shit out of me growing up, and now she annoys me even more as someone who ignores me constantly, except to nag or berate me for lifestyle choices, thought she's also an elected official for District 15 (Montrose, basically) in Houston. Where I lived right before moving to Seattle, lol. She can have it. And y'all can have her, too, lol. I hope I speak to her soon, but I'm glad she's not my elected official, frankly. Being my middle sister is about as much as I can stand from her.

Chloe is a perfect and beautiful angel, and has been since the moment she was born. I was the first to hold her at the hospital besides the medical staff (which is WILD, but true), and she's the coolest. You guys should elect HER. She never would, though, she's not that stubborn, needy or dumb, lol. 

Those are the three Cook Siblings! A fun family, I think, and we occasionally hear that others feel the same way.

I used to be known as Kevin (but I was named for a prison Warden, so I was like... hm, no thanks), though now I go by Kay so I can still sign checks K. Cook 😆 My middle sister, Molly, annoyed the shit out of me growing up, and now she annoys me even more as someone who ignores me constantly, except to nag or berate me for lifestyle choices, thought she's also an elected official for District 15 (Montrose, basically) in Houston. Where I lived right before moving to Seattle, lol. She can have it. And y'all can have her, too, lol. I hope I speak to her soon, but I'm glad she's not my elected official, frankly. Being my middle sister is about as much as I can stand from her. Chloe is a perfect and beautiful angel, and has been since the moment she was born. I was the first to hold her at the hospital besides the medical staff (which is WILD, but true), and she's the coolest. You guys should elect HER. She never would, though, she's not that stubborn, needy or dumb, lol. Those are the three Cook Siblings! A fun family, I think, and we occasionally hear that others feel the same way.

#EXCITING 🤩

I'm WAY the #blacksheep of #CookFamily (which includes my 2 sisters Molly & Chloe - I'll let YOU guess which one is a st senator in #Texas) (it's the other #redhead, though), so pretty thrilling for me that I retook this old #familyphoto by stalking my #deadname on #Facebook 🥰

#KayCook

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Thursday August 7 5:03 Pm “kmichaelcook87 Perhaps you should…”

Thursday August 7 5:03 Pm “kmichaelcook87 Perhaps you should…”

A #notification to an account under my #deadname that opens, “Perhaps you should…”

I’ve never felt safer in my LIFE ignoring a #noti, or more certain that I wouldn’t have liked it #lol 🤣

#trans #YouTube #badadvice #unsolicitedadvice #FUCKofflol

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Musk’s AI firm forced to delete posts praising Hitler from Grok chatbot The popular bot on X began making antisemitic comments in response to user queries

Do you think #Elon will #deadname #MechaHitler?
www.theguardian.com/technology/2...

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Confirmation of Diane's legal affirmation.

Confirmation of Diane's legal affirmation.

🏳️‍⚧️🩵🩵🩷🩷🤍🤍🩷🩷🩵🩵⚧️🧑‍⚖️
My #deadname is officially dead.
My #trans name lives!
Where's the next #transition milestone?
*stage-whispers toward theatre*
...Oh ☺️
#legalaffirmation #affirmation

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A masculine figure lays splayed on the floor, his back opened like a wound, but it is a large zipper n kneeling in the opening like some fresh maiden arriving in an eggplant-tinted canoe, she sits pert n upright, a long haired, large eyed, pink-hued woman, a beam of pink illumination bathing the air around her, heralding her entrance to the world!!!

A masculine figure lays splayed on the floor, his back opened like a wound, but it is a large zipper n kneeling in the opening like some fresh maiden arriving in an eggplant-tinted canoe, she sits pert n upright, a long haired, large eyed, pink-hued woman, a beam of pink illumination bathing the air around her, heralding her entrance to the world!!!

🏳️‍⚧️ 'it's called deadname for a reason'
#TransWoman #Trans #TransFemme #Deadname #Transgender #Pink #Purple #TransMeme #TransMemes

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Being Dead named and Doxxed by TheVintagePotato and Xtraliana's communities
Being Dead named and Doxxed by TheVintagePotato and Xtraliana's communities YouTube video by RoryValintine

For anybody else who wants to stay safe from these streamers @xtraliana and @thevintagepotato , their communities, their moderators, along for themselves and may want to rethink.
youtu.be/SIVy78Y5ZKI?...

#twitch #twitchstreamer #twitchstreamers #twitchpartners #doxxing #deadname #deadnaming #sinder

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