Two and a half years ago today the light went out of my life. #grief #solstice #partnerloss #widowhood
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Two and a half years ago today the light went out of my life. #grief #solstice #partnerloss #widowhood
We were a good team. He was the sunshine, I was the rain. Together we made rainbows; now everything is just grey. #grief #bereavement #partnerloss
This is my third Christmas without him. I don't send cards any more or decorate the house. Some kindly people still send me greetings and the normalness of their messages are utterly crushing. How on earth do they think I'll have a "fabulous Christmas" or a "brilliant 2026"? #grief #partnerloss
It's one of those days when the silence is utterly deafening. #grief #partnerloss #bereavement
The random assaults are everywhere. Emails inviting me to look back at a year of "family fun", supermarket dine-in offers for two, competitions for holidays that I would have no one to go on with if I won... It's relentless. #grief #widowed #partnerloss
One of our favourite places- Borough Market
A mini Phil hidden in the window, wearing the best half man half biscuit shirt I got him once
#grief #partnerloss #boroughmarket #london #illustration #vectorart
People keep confusing me with the person I was when he was here. Apparently I'm always busy and out all the time. So who is that person who sits on the sofa alone most nights? #grief #alone #widowed #partnerloss
Drew this a while back and he always thought I made him look too hipster. But I like it anyway 🥰
#vectorillustration #drawings #digitalart #gonebutnotforgotten #partnerloss
It happened years ago but today, it’s sharper than ever.
Grief sucks.
Especially partner grief.
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A couple of my lovely late partner Phil, and one of lovely Madeira
#illustration #drawings #memories #partnerloss #travel #london #vectorillustration
His absence fills my life. #grief #partnerloss #widowed
Grief feels like wearing punishingly uncomfortable new shoes all the bloody time, while longing to kick them off and wriggle into your favourite comfy slippers. But someone has thrown those slippers away and you must trudge on in the painful shoes for ever. #grief #partnerloss #widowed #bereavement
The silence and emptiness are deafening and crushing without him here. #grief #widowed #partnerloss
Having couples to visit is difficult. Their easy chat about shared memories and plans, little in jokes... All so hard to witness once your person is gone. #grief #widowed #partnerloss
Some days in this grief game are unremittingly bleak and this is one of them. I have simply had enough of him not being here. #grief #widowed #partnerloss
This chimed strongly with me, especially ‘normal’ people's rose-tinted view of being alone. #grief #loneliness #partnerloss #widowed
So tired of constantly having to be grateful to people for spending time with me, now that the person who actually wanted to be with me isn't here any more. #grief #partnerloss #widowed
Every day feels like a battle. Just organising simple outings or managing complicated projects, it's all so much harder without him. #grief #partnerloss #widowed
Just noticed that in my work day book I wrote that yesterday was 4th March 2023. Because I can't actually accept that time has carried on since I lost him. #grief #partnerloss #widowed
Someone decided to show me an app you can use so your loved ones can monitor where you are to make sure you're safe. There is no one to care where I am any more but she genuinely didn't understand why it was upsetting me. Then she suggested it would mean the police could find my body! #partnerloss
Currently working my through boxes of our stuff that were sent to storage two and half years ago when we thought we were embarking on an adventure to start a new life. Every single one, no matter how mundane the contents, is like a grenade set to go off in my heart. #grief #bereavement #partnerloss
Still finding it so hard to engage with 'normal' people and their 'we' went here and 'we' did this and 'we' are going on holiday because 'we so need a break'. My whole life collapsed when my love died and I feel I have no common ground with them any more. #grief #partnerloss #widow
Time makes you stronger, but grief never gets easier. Valentine's Day makes me think of wry smiles, pumpkin with yogurt, hot chocolate, and kisses that make time stop. It's been five years since the first time I saw the sunrise with you next to me and I love you just as much. #grief #partnerloss
Thinking of my #DearlyDeparted Agnes on her name day 💜
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#TimTalk – How to try and take the uncertainty out of loss with Natalia Pazzaglia https://buff.ly/4hbmvxA via @DLAIgnite #SocialSelling #DigitalSelling #BereavedFamilies #Grief #LossofaParent #Loss #Bereaved #Bereavement #PartnerLoss #ChildLoss #BereavedFamilies #BereavementSupport
#TimTalk – How to find peace and leave regret behind with Gary McClain https://buff.ly/3YRNndO via @DLAIgnite #SocialSelling #DigitalSelling #Closure #Relationships #BereavedFamilies #Grief #LossofaParent #Loss #Bereaved #Bereavement #PartnerLoss #relationship #relationshipadvice
#TimTalk – How to try and take the uncertainty out of loss with Natalia Pazzaglia https://buff.ly/4hbmvxA via @DLAIgnite #SocialSelling #DigitalSelling #BereavedFamilies #Grief #LossofaParent #Loss #Bereaved #Bereavement #PartnerLoss #ChildLoss #BereavedFamilies #BereavementSupport