Latest posts tagged with #tmps on Bluesky
to my past/present self #tmps:
exploiting MANUFACTURED sexual insecurities of men for NOT performing unaccountable & coercive control is sexual exploitation.
We're groomed to have our sexual agency coerced unaccountably. #cult
#manosphere #maga #Epstein @leafeaf.bsky.social @zooples.bsky.social
to my past self #tmps:
the humility of rejecting needing absolute certainty or vindication will be life & self-respect saving.
accepting possibility that your instincts can be BOTH valid & wise is scary BUT heals your violated agency & confidence.
#cults = #slavery
#deconstruction #Exvangelical
#tmps
To my past/present self:
Beware any individual, group, or thing who conflate:
- #respect & #conformity
- #intentions with #accountability for #expectations.
For these two patterns will undermine your instincts & fuel self-destruction.
#Deconstruction #cults #1a
@knittingcultlady.bsky.social
#tmps
watching dad cry, faced with mom's mortality after years of breaking her spirit & passive aggressiveness
you weren't sure how much he loved her vs. his fear of being alone.
...that uncertainty will hunt you.
...you'll vow not wait to make the women in your life feel valued.
#deconstruction
#tmps
"I have a duty to take care of my #wife and protect her, not to bark orders"
To give #love: take to your grave mistakes of your ancestors & oppressors.
#strength #patriarchy #knittingcultlady #safety #deconstruction #wisdom
@zooples.bsky.social
@shanley.com
@luriedanielfavors.bsky.social
#tmps #knittingcultlady
If one's beliefs incites cruelty upon others: know as cruelty serves you, so too shall it service you.
To my past self:
You hoped patriarchy would shelter you from father's abuse. It didn't. Just got easier to hurt others.
@montemader.bsky.social
@jessiegender.bsky.social
#Antitheocracy #blacksky #tmps
To the missionaries of various religions that deceive parents into abusive/toxic relationships with their children
You are among the worst of humanity.
Devastating lives via intergenerational trauma and avoidance of accountability.
@misfitamish.bsky.social
#tmps #cptsd
So true. So true!...
Something that perplexes me is how our childhood instincts gets so beat down and corrupted by abuse.
I often look back and realize I sought out the same type of rejection, embarrassment and humiliation that I grew up with subconsciously.
It's very frustrating.
#Anti-Fascism #tmps
To my past/present self:
Who you is not your behavior, IT'S HOW YOU CHANGE YOURSELF OVER TIME.
Your behavior is just a frame/snap-shot in that timeline. Respect it as such, but not as a limitation.
Unaccountable coercive control destroys your evolution. Know your adversary.
#tmps
To my past/present self:
Using the ignorance of others' experiences as a bonding mechanism is self-destructive and abusive.
Norms that encourage men to be ignorant of the realities of womanhood or vice versa: abuses all involved... And those yet to be.
#tmps
To my past/present self,
Only well into adulthood. Will you begin tocomprehend the extent of your father's abuse.
Worse still, only then will you begin to emotionally process how you have abused others.
It hurts knowing your instincts to not trust your dad and his God were always right.
#tmps
It's cultish for piety/acceptance to require the dynamics of blackmail.
When did we participants consent to:
Treating the sexual identity of children & the marginalized as material property of others?
Or
Worship the power dynamics of slavery.
No science-based sex ed = No freedom/liberty.
@leafeaf.bsky.social just a follow-up/ follow through.
I have started my small project about self-critical perspectives and stuff.
Under #tmps, meaning to my past/ present self.
#ptsd #tmps
To my past self:
Upon this rock, your mind will break.
For the sake of your parents abuse, you will grow up being deprived of proper mental health services.
Confidence in your instincts to identify abuse is *murdered*, so you blame yourself for the abuse.
youtube.com/post/Ugkxopx...
#PTSD #tmps #blacksky
To my past/present self:
Taking control of your life means accepting accountability for how you cried/cry for help.
NOT just naming what made you cry out in the first place.
NOR rejecting low self-esteem because of things you can't control.
Don't avoid this discomfort.
#pstd #tmps
to my past self:
Your parents love being parents more than they will ever love you.
You will recognize their bullying as early as second grade... But be in denial of it till your late twenties... All in a doomed effort the religion forced upon you.
But you are still your worst enemy.
