#Courtesy

@poison-raika.bsky.social

2 weeks ago

先ずは己から示せ！　Покажіть це спочатку самі!｜ポイズン雷花 礼儀や敬意を求める以前に己自身が示し、模範と成るべき。世の中にはよく居ます、他人を見下したり、傲慢な態度を取ったりするヤカラ。その上で偉そうに「先輩へ態度が成ってない」とか「此処は己の席だ、誰が座って良いて云った」とか「無礼な奴」とか云う。そう云うのはパワーハラだったり、如何に己自身が礼儀知らずのゴミかを示す行為に過ぎない。最低、最悪の態度でしか他人と接する事の出来ないヤカラに対して、何方も...

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ポイズン雷花

@poison-raika.bsky.social

3 weeks ago

#before #respect 先ずは己から示せ！　Покажіть це спочатку самі - pixiv 礼儀や敬意を求める以前に己自身が示し、模範と成るべき。世の中にはよく居ます、他人を見下したり、傲慢な態度を取ったりするヤカラ。その上で偉そうに「先輩へ態度が成ってない」とか「此処は己の席だ、誰が座って良いて云った」とか「無礼な奴」とか云う。そう云うのはパワーハラだったり、如何

先ずは己から示せ！　Покажіть це спочатку самі!
У цьому світі є багато людей, які зневажливо дивляться на інших і поводяться зарозуміло.

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Riverwriter

@riverwriter78.bsky.social

3 weeks ago

Let me be a little petty for a second- I need it. It’s just impolite to sweep detritus off of your balcony when you have downstairs neighbors, right? Because then it becomes their problem. Get a garbage bag. Yeah, it’s already been a long week. #neighbors #courtesy

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Etiquetteer

@etiquetteer.bsky.social

3 weeks ago

Thoughts on Gracious Living, Vol. 25, Issue 8 — Etiquetteer Etiquetteer first heard the term “gracious living” in Judith Martin’s wise, stern, but lighthearted Miss Manners’ Guide to Excruciatingly Correct Behavior ; it turns out Mrs. Martin’s major at Welles...

Today Etiquetteer has a few thoughts on #graciousliving, and how it differs from elegant living. (They are not mutually exclusive.)

www.etiquetteer.com/columns/2026...

#etiquette #manners #courtesy #kindness

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SuMo📞Congress 202-224-3121📞CSPAN 202-748-8000

@sumoh7.bsky.social

1 month ago

Barack Obama BREAKS SILENCE on Trump's ape video, Bad Bunny, and 2028 election YouTube video by Brian Tyler Cohen

📌🚨Pres. Barack Obama BREAKS SILENCE on Trump's ape video, Bad Bunny, and 2028 election

Brian Tyler Cohen and Barack Obama 2/14/2026
www.youtube.com/watch?v=uI-h...

RePost!

#Obama
#Decency
#Decorum
#RespectForPOTUSoffice
#Courtesy
#Kindness
#ObamaWin!

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Leon French

@leonfrench.bsky.social

1 month ago

The hill I will die on: Britons love saying thank you – I think we should ban the phrase | Sangeeta Pillai Really, what is the point of this endless conversational back and forth? Step out of the loop, and change your life, says author Sangeeta Pillai

The hill I will die on: Britons love saying thank you – I think we should ban the phrase, writes Sangeeta Pillai at the article linked below

#britain #etiquette #manners #thankyou #courtesy #dziekuje

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kiq / キク

@kiq.fedibird.com.ap.brid.gy

1 month ago

Courtesy 300126 Regular techno, electro, and house missives from the Against Interpretation labelhead and powerhouse-club selector Courtesy… Find the full tracklist and related episodes on NTS: https://www.nts.liv

“Regular techno, electro, and house missives from the Against Interpretation labelhead and powerhouse-club selector C... / “Courtesy 300126” (1 user) soundcloud.com/user-202286394-991268468... #Courtesy

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PassItOn

@passiton.bsky.social

1 month ago

All doors open to courtesy. Dr. Thomas Fuller
#courtesy #passiton

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PassItOn

@passiton.bsky.social

1 month ago

Real strength entails being considerate and supportive of people's feelings. Mary Kay Ash
#courtesy #passiton

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Quasit

@quasit.kolektiva.social.ap.brid.gy

1 month ago

⁨@julieofthespirits⁩ ⁨@noodlemaz⁩ Excuse me, but I think you're being unnecessarily hostile to Marianne. I see no sign of the malice that you are ascribing to her. Mastodon is more kind and tolerant than sites like Facebook and Reddit, in general. It's easy to bring old habits from those sites here. I myself make an extra effort to be understanding here, just because I'm used to fighting with people online on the old sites. At worst, I mute and move on. I believe we're all on the same side in this conversation. Given the atrocities we're seeing every day, it's only natural to get angry. But we need to aim that anger at the fascists, not each other. Just my two cents.

Someone was getting mean here to someone else, so I tried to appeal to the better angels of their nature.

It seems she blocked me. Oh well! At least I tried.

#Mastodon #Courtesy #Manners #Kindness

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PassItOn

@passiton.bsky.social

1 month ago

The small courtesies sweeten life; the greater, ennoble it. Christian Nestell Bovee
#courtesy #passiton

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PassItOn

@passiton.bsky.social

1 month ago

Take care, be kind, be considerate of other people and other species, and be loving. John Lithgow
#courtesy #passiton

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The 🫠 ᴘʀᴇᴛᴛʏ KEXP 🎶 #NowPlaying Bot

@kexpmusicbot.bsky.social

1 month ago

You’re Not Alone [feat. Erika de Casier & August Rosenbaum], by Courtesy from the album Courtesy - fra eufori

🇺🇦 #NowPlaying on #KEXP's #VarietyMix

Courtesy & Erika de Casier:
🎵 You're Not Alone (Dance Review)

#Courtesy #ErikadeCasier

#newRelease - 🆕 single

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PassItOn

@passiton.bsky.social

1 month ago

Life is not so short but that there is always time for courtesy. Ralph Waldo Emerson
#courtesy #passiton

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Ben R. (Back in Cascadia)

@samspade.bsky.social

1 month ago

#courtesy and #beingneighbourly always sexy AF. 🤙

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Dr Flavius Akerele III

@drflaviusakerele.bsky.social

1 month ago

Good Communication: A Lost Art? A blog that deals with current issues in education, leadership, and educational leadership

Thoughts on good communication: eteameducationgroup.blogspot.com/2026/01/good...
#communication #courtesy #2026willbebetter

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Sharing the best of humanity with the world, one story at a tim…

@upworthy.com.web.brid.gy

1 month ago

Woman from Denmark shares 'normal' things that are considered rude in Nordic countries The saying, "When in Rome, do as the Romans do," has been around since ancient times and is still a good reminder that customs and habits vary wherever you go. One of the best things about traveling to another part of the world is discovering how things you think are normal or standard are not universally so, and seeing how different cultures function broadens your ideas of the human experience. That's why a woman from Denmark explaining "normal" things that are considered rude in Nordic countries has caught people's attention. People are often fascinated with Denmark, Finland, Sweden, and Norway, largely because they regularly top lists of "happiest countries in the world" (which is always a little surprising considering the weather in that part of the world alone). Here are the 13 behaviors and habits Kelly Louise Killjoy says Nordic countries consider rude in her experience: - YouTube youtu.be ### 1. Being late to anything Of course, being late is rude in a lot of places, so this one may not be surprising, but punctuality is a culturally specific expectation. There are places where it would be considered rude to show up early, and other places where "fashionably late" doesn't exist. In Killjoy's experience, Nordic folks like to be as close to exactly on time as possible. "Like five minutes early or five minutes late, no more, no less," she says. "Preferably exactly on time." And they will often apologize for even being one minute late. ### 2. Showing up unannounced Some countries have a distinct "dropping by" culture, but the Nordic nations aren't among them. Even close friends and family call or text before arriving at someone's house, as it's considered rude to just show up. "With Nordic people, it's all about respecting our time," Killjoy says. "We often plan our time very carefully, according to when we're meeting you. And these meetups are often scheduled weeks or months beforehand. So the door may be open, but it doesn't mean the schedule is." ### 3. Canceling plans last minute "Unless you have a serious reason, this is more rude than saying no up front because you don't feel like it," Killjoy says. "Again, Nordic people plan their time around you for weeks, if not months, so respect our time and we will love you for it." Woman disappointed by last minute cancelled plans. Photo credit: Canva ### 4. Speaking to people without a practical purpose Even though not everyone loves it, small talk is considered normal in American culture. Not so much in Scandinavia. If you're just running errands or going through your normal daily life activities in Nordic countries, people don't just shoot the breeze with you. "If you talk to us, we will assume there's a reason, otherwise we get confused and awkward," Killjoy says. "If you've ever had a conversation with a Nordic person where you thought, 'Why didn't they like me?' or 'This got awkward very quickly,' it's because that Nordic person was more than likely trying to figure out what you wanted out of that conversation." ### 5. Being overly polite Killjoy says this is another area where Americans and Nordic people often misunderstand each other. The idea of politeness being rude even sounds like an oxymoron, but for Nordic folks, it's really about being asked questions you don't want to give real answers to. The example Killjoy gives is asking people, "How are you?" That's standard for Americans, and it's understood that you're not asking someone to spill all of their emotions in the moment. But Nordic folks take questions at face value, so it feels personal and invasive. ### 6. Speaking loudly in public places One thing that people sometimes pinpoint with Americans visiting other countries is that we tend to speak loudly. In a public place like a restaurant, where lots of people are talking, it's not really much of a consideration for us. But it is for Nordic folks (and a lot of other European countries, Killjoy points out). ### 7. Sitting next to someone when you don't have to "This is a classic Nordic meme, but it's true," Killjoy says. "We do not like people sitting next to us when we can see there's space around for them to divide themselves upon." If you sit next to a Nordic person on a mostly empty bus, they'll think something is wrong with you or that you might wish them harm. (To be fair, this is likely true most places. But there are some friendly folks who like to chat with strangers and will take the opportunity when they see it.) Sitting closer than necessary to someone is rude. Photo credit: Canva ### 8. Using formal titles "Unless you're addressing the king or queen, don't," says Killjoy. Although titles like "Mr." or "Mrs." or "Dr." are used to show respect in a lot of places, Nordic folks tend to see them as impersonal and distant. "Even doctors and teachers will think it's weird if you use formal titles with them," she says. ### 9. Bragging "This ties into the people being loud part as well," Killjoy says. "Nordic culture is a very conflict-avoidant and don't-stand-outish kind of culture." She says there's even a Danish word for this social norm that heavily discourages standing out and favors humility and equality: _Janteloven_. "Bragging just goes heavily against that," Killjoy says. ### 10. Tipping "Tipping cultures are very awkward to Nordic people," says Killjoy. "Like, I don't understand why you can't just pay your employees." (Same, honestly.) > — (@) ### 11. Not taking off your shoes in someone's home This one is more of a household-by-household preference in the U.S., it seems, but in Scandinavia, it's the norm to take off your shoes in the house. Most Nordic homes have mudrooms for this very purpose. ### 12. Honking your car horn Go to any major U.S. city, and you'll hear no shortage of car horns. Killjoy says in Denmark it's illegal to honk your car horn for any other reason than as a danger warning or if someone hasn't seen you. "If you honk, someone will assume there's something wrong," she says, so don't honk there out of impatience. A person honks their car horn. Photo credit: Canva ### 13. Jaywalking Killjoy calls jaywalking "kind of rude," primarily because Nordic folks tend to be rule-followers. It's not that they will never jaywalk, but generally, they only do it when no one is really around or would notice. Of course, these "considered rude" behaviors are coming from one person, and some commenters from Nordic countries added some clarifications in the comments (such as the "no dropping by" rule being something newer or more specific to urban than rural areas). But many fellow Scandinavians corroborated the things on this list. It's good to know, though, what people from one of these countries might find rude when you meet them. And if you ever find yourself in Denmark? Do as the Danes do.

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T.J. Crowder

@tjcrowder.bsky.social

2 months ago

Please folks, use tags to classify your posts, so people who need to can block tags for things that are problematic for them. You never know what other people are going through.

#Tags #MentalHealth #Courtesy #Bluesky

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Alice bane of Gooners

@ali-bum.bsky.social

2 months ago

Anon stroke had while reading this stroke
#trans #meme #shitpost #top #greentext #4chan #courtesy

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ポイズン雷花

@poison-raika.bsky.social

2 months ago

先ずは己から示せ！　Покажіть це спочатку самі!｜ポイズン雷花 礼儀や敬意を求める以前に己自身が示し、模範と成るべき。世の中にはよく居ます、他人を見下したり、傲慢な態度を取ったりするヤカラ。その上で偉そうに「先輩へ態度が成ってない」とか「此処は己の席だ、誰が座って良いて云った」とか「無礼な奴」とか云う。そう云うのはパワーハラだったり、如何に己自身が礼儀知らずのゴミかを示す行為に過ぎない。最低、最悪の態度でしか他人と接する事の出来ないヤカラに対して、何方も...

先ずは己から示せ！　Покажіть це спочатку самі!
Якщо ви хочете, щоб люди віталися з вами і поводилися чемно, ви повинні це показати.

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ポイズン雷花

@poison-raika.bsky.social

2 months ago

#before #respect 先ずは己から示せ！　Покажіть це спочатку самі - pixiv 礼儀や敬意を求める以前に己自身が示し、模範と成るべき。世の中にはよく居ます、他人を見下したり、傲慢な態度を取ったりするヤカラ。その上で偉そうに「先輩へ態度が成ってない」とか「此処は己の席だ、誰が座って良いて云った」とか「無礼な奴」とか云う。そう云うのはパワーハラだったり、如何

先ずは己から示せ！　Покажіть це спочатку самі!
У цьому світі є багато людей, які зневажливо дивляться на інших і поводяться зарозуміло.

www.pixiv.net/novel/show.p...

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@talk2mfc.bsky.social

2 months ago

MFC’s TFTD ... We shouldn’t have to know what people are going through for us to have the common #courtesy to be nice to them.

#decency #love #benice #inspiration

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TheEtiquetteQueen

@etiquettequeen.bsky.social

2 months ago

Provide fresh, clean sheets for your guests.

#linens #host #hosting #etiquette #manners #hostetiquette #courtesy

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@ventandwhine.bsky.social

2 months ago

If you can't clean up after your dog hire someone else to before letting them go all over community grounds. Whatever isn't green is either fresh dog crap or the dead grass caused by the previous droppings. This is right below my window. I am just glad it isn't summer so I can't smell it. #courtesy

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@appleanddeb.bsky.social

3 months ago

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No one— Absolutely No One:

Here to create extra hours of operation just for you out of thin air.

Stay kind!

❤️

#Courtesy #Writing #Business

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@appleanddeb.bsky.social

3 months ago

a man in a blue shirt says respect in front of a blurry background ALT: a man in a blue shirt says respect in front of a blurry background

✨T’is the season to grab your coats and other things and head out fifteen-twenty minutes before an establishment’s closing time at latest…

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❤️

#Courtesy #Writing #Business

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IrishLisa 🌈

@irishlisa.bsky.social

3 months ago

Honor in all ways
Courtesy in every day
Strength wears quiet robes

#vss365 #Chivalrous #Senryu #Haiku #Poetry #Micropoetry #BlueskyPoets #PoetsOfBluesky #Honor #Courtesy #Kindness #QuietStrength

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The Wisdom Pedlars, Antiquarian Book Auctions

@wisdompedlars.bsky.social

3 months ago

Rare HENRY PEACHAM 1622 COMPLEAT GENTLEMAN 1st COURTESY EDUCATION CULTURE CONDUCT

#books #antiquarian #17thcentury #firstedition #courtesy #conduct #education #gentleman #culture #pasttimes #morality #rarebooks #heraldry #bookauction
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A. T. Baron 🖋🖌📸🐾

@atbaron.bsky.social

3 months ago

“Do to others as you would have them do to you.” Generally considered the "Golden Rule," is a principle seen in many human religions and human cultures. It is simple human courtesy, and we should be practicing it regularly. 🥠
#FortuneCookieFriday #GoldenRule #Courtesy #PracticeBeingPolite

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ポイズン雷花

@poison-raika.bsky.social

3 months ago

先ずは己から示せ！　Покажіть це спочатку самі!｜ポイズン雷花 礼儀や敬意を求める以前に己自身が示し、模範と成るべき。世の中にはよく居ます、他人を見下したり、傲慢な態度を取ったりするヤカラ。その上で偉そうに「先輩へ態度が成ってない」とか「此処は己の席だ、誰が座って良いて云った」とか「無礼な奴」とか云う。そう云うのはパワーハラだったり、如何に己自身が礼儀知らずのゴミかを示す行為に過ぎない。最低、最悪の態度でしか他人と接する事の出来ないヤカラに対して、何方も...

先ずは己から示せ！　Покажіть це спочатку самі!
Якщо ви хочете, щоб люди віталися з вами і поводилися чемно, ви повинні це показати.

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