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Did you ever want to be a man?’
Alice smiled a little, took a sip of her drink and thought about it. Did she ever want to be a man?
‘I don’t think so. I think I was fine with being a girl because of Pippi Longstocking. I could relate to her. She made it possible for me to be a girl. But being a woman or a wife or a mother never appealed to me, and it doesn’t really make sense to me either. Yet, I don’t think wanting-to-be-a-man ever crossed my mind. Though I usually relate to male characters in stories, like Sinbad, Ali Baba, Da Vinci, Cicero or Aragon. But then, maybe I haven’t read enough books or seen enough movies. Though, now that I come to think of it, being a Christian would have been more fun as a man, I think. A woman was only good enough to serve a man, but as a man you got to do real things, so to speak.’
‘Like tyrannising others about how to live?’
‘Yeah. A woman was only allowed to tyrannise young children — and other women.’
‘Unbelievable.’
‘If only it were just a story. But here’s a funny thing. I do have one other positive female image in my mind. And that’s the image of an old, deeply wrinkled, white haired and foremost very wise woman. She is very beautiful in every respect: mind, body and soul. That’s an image I could be comfortable with.’
‘In the far future?’
Alice laughed. ‘Yeah. I’d give it another four to five decades and heaps of still deeply buried wisdom.’
A ladybug climbing among Tansy buds.
DAY 7,
connecting to TRAUMATIC RUN-INS WITH WOMEN
‘Did you ever want to be a man?’
Alice smiled a little, took a sip of her drink and thought about it. Did she ever want to be a man? ‘I don’t think so.’
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