Latest posts tagged with #avoidant on Bluesky
Check out my piece on the #defense of #avoidant #women - attachment theory has become a popular way of definition & these #icequeens are often villainized because of it
#woman #women #female #nationalwomenshistory #tedlasso #elsa #frozen #ghosts #hetty #avoidance
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#Relationships
"It’s Not You, It’s Me; I’m an #avoidant who can’t stop dumping people. Sorry I’m not sorry!"
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Am I clocking this right? Tag a buddie and a bestie who need to hear this. ❤️ #dating #relationship #avoidant #anxious #datingtips
someone engage with me, I promise I’ll be transparent and totally not elusive! #avoidant
So if I was the problem as you said. And the problem was removed, then why do you still have all of the same problems? #Narcissist #Avoidant
You're Not Rational, You're Terrified.
Ever notice how the sharper your argument gets in a fight, the more terrified you actually are? That's not rationality. That's your nervous system working overtime.
#logic #fear #avoidant #communication #relationships #hcp
The Dance of Intimacy
The less room there is to navigate this distance, the more difficult the relationship. There is less anxiety, and hence less demand on the relationship to accommodate a narrow comfort zone.
Check: tinyurl.com/2rkkf9a3
#Anxious #Style #Autonomy #Avoidant #Break-Ups #Codependency
So if I was the problem as you said. And the problem was removed, then why do you still have all of the same problems? #narcissist #avoidant
went to company holiday party (ew) and saw my ex friend and avoided her the whole time #avoidant
The Dance of Intimacy
The relationship duet is the dance of intimacy that all couples do. One partner moves in, the other backs up. Partners may reverse roles, but always maintain a certain space between them.
Check: tinyurl.com/2rkkf9a3
#Anxious #Style #Autonomy #Avoidant #BreakUps #Codependency
Familiar? They are not bad persons, but they need to heal themselves, before they can be a loving partner. #gr3tetag #mentalhealth #lovematters #BeKind #relationship #selflove #selfcare #dailyquotes #avoidant #attachmentstyle #dailylife #dailytherapy #toxicrelationship
What are the hallmarks of #avoidant attachment? How does interpersonal trauma shape these patterns? And how can mindful self-compassion begin to transform them? buff.ly/XkhRAnr #AttachmentStyles #TraumaHealing #MindfulSelfCompassion #Therapy #Healing
Girl Talk, for those who need to hear this, remember; You're perfect 👌 literally = it's not you! It's him! 💔 🍂🤎🍁🦃🤎🍂💔 #gr3tetag #HealingVibes #GirlTalk #selflove #selfcare #dailyquotes #relationship #mentalhealth #lovematters #BeKind #toxicrelationship #avoidant
That deep-seated feeling of #shame that appears when you say no or feel “too vulnerable” is a protection mechanism, learned early to survive unpredictability
For #anxious, #avoidant, or #fearfulavoidant attachers, it can look different
How does it come up in you?
Where do you feel it in your body?
Your heart is never healed after the death of a loved one. #avoidant #griefandloss #griefjourney See the full video on Tiktok at the link below 👇 www.tiktok.com/t/ZTMHyNAwU/
Sorry, that’s Zuckville. Friends don’t drive friends to Zuckville… Here. #DA #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyles Remember it’s only my opinion my ex was #Avoidant. But this stuff helped me. I mean 2 have yr ways explained so someone knows the pitfalls n how u think how process feel n value? Golden
Anyone else so #avoidant that you wait until your roommates leave before you go to the kitchen to get food even if it means you're hungry for a few hours?
No? Just me? 👀
Guess I'll be bringing this up in #therapy this week... 📝
(I like my roommates, I just don't want to interact bc *spoons*.)
Lol 😂 💙 well, #avoidant issues are not gender specific, so "mea culpa"
My dear 💙 I'll keep it mind, next time 🙏 #gr3tetag #GirlTalk #dailyquotes
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SURVIVAL, NOT FLAWS
#Anxious, #Avoidant, and #FearfulAvoidant styles aren’t flaws.
They’re survival strategies — adaptations when needs weren’t met, shaped by systemic oppression.
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Ah yes the only puzzle Kuma can't solve haha #comic #webcomic #breakups #brokenheart #emotionallyunavailable #avoidant #comedy #simplecomic #kumacubshorts
You’d be #avoidant #attachmentstyle, too, if you’d had my mother 😅
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#psychology #gingers #redheads 👩🦰 #lol #HannahFry
I'm Not Him By Dylan Thomas ✍️
#poetry #selfreflection #mentalhealth #discarded #attachment #heartache #avoidant
bought a single item from anker on tuesday night & they've already sent me seven emails about it. it's too much. like it's activating my attachment wounds i haven't felt this #avoidant in ages
I've received the draft report from my #psychologist. Confirmed #Autism and #ADHD inattentive type. So #AuDHD with #Avoidant, #Dependent, #Schizoid and #Melancholic personality traits. I'm such a fucking mess :P May smoke a little cookie dough #cannabis #weed tonight to chill.
Rattled as fuck